Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
This board is made up of people dealing with infidelity in their life. Its mainly inhabited by the betrayed spouses/significant others.
Because of the pain experienced by the betrayed partners, posts made by cheaters who feel or express no remorse/guilt can act as triggers that cause anger and frustration and often receive very strong, emotional, or negative replies.
If you are unwilling to express remorse/guilt, or are not ready to receive replies that show you the pain that cheating causes your loved one ... for you own emotional well being this might not be the board for you.
There is a member-created group on this site specifically for people who are the cheaters. There is another for the "other people". You can find these groups by using the search function in DS.
Cheaters Anonymous - Focused on the cheater but has betrayed in the group. There are strong rules about the expectation of respectful behavior by the betrayed spouses/SO's.
OM OW Are People Too - a support group for the other person in the affair.
Since DS does not allow sticky posts, if this topic is valuable, then just bump it once in a while.
Because of the pain experienced by the betrayed partners, posts made by cheaters who feel or express no remorse/guilt can act as triggers that cause anger and frustration and often receive very strong, emotional, or negative replies.
If you are unwilling to express remorse/guilt, or are not ready to receive replies that show you the pain that cheating causes your loved one ... for you own emotional well being this might not be the board for you.
There is a member-created group on this site specifically for people who are the cheaters. There is another for the "other people". You can find these groups by using the search function in DS.
Cheaters Anonymous - Focused on the cheater but has betrayed in the group. There are strong rules about the expectation of respectful behavior by the betrayed spouses/SO's.
OM OW Are People Too - a support group for the other person in the affair.
Since DS does not allow sticky posts, if this topic is valuable, then just bump it once in a while.
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No offense meant to the wonderful people on this site who are attorneys/lawyers/solicitors.
Couldn't agree more cbazan, especially the "cowardly actions".
On the other hand, a cheating spouse/partner who is here it better understand what their wife/SO is experiencing and gain perspective in order to better themselves and salvage their relationship, feels like different kettle of fish to me. One size does not fit all (even when I am pissed off and want it to. That happens too)! Cheating is WRONG and BAD and there is NO defense, but there can be "repentance" in SOME cases (I hope). I would stress to the cheaters who choose to be here, please tread lightly and with sensitivity. Yes, you are human and have feelings too but you will not, in all likelihood get sympathy from us. We have been victimized by "you" and we are venting that pain and rage. You defending the Cheaters point of few is bound to ruffle some feathers. As pointed out at the beginning of this thread,there are other groups if it is support and sympathy for your position that you are needing and seeking.
I am new to this forum, so I am not really the best person to be "telling it like it is". This is just the way I see it at this point in my experience here. Hope no one is hurt by my views.
My name is Hans I'm 31.
I have an addiction of sorts, I just keep getting involved with more relationships, I am involved in 4 relationships right now and I am engaged.
It all started with me getting engaged with my girlfriend Mara then I met this other girl at a bar let's call her Maria, we have sex one night and after 2 days I come clean to Mara and she is hurt but is willing to forgive me but I could not be with her anymore because I felt guilty, I broke up with her and then got back together with her after 2 weeks and we're engaged again, thing is I'm still having sex with Maria, and not only her but 2 of my ex girlfriends as well.
I know you will all think I'm a horrible person right now and I admit that I am, I just don't know what to do, I can't stop, and I had always been like this.
Sorry for my poor english.
Really, there are so many women involved in this. If I met you and sat down and talked to you, I would tell you to take a sabatical for yourself and for yourself only. Take 3 months to stop seeing everyone involved and just listen to yourself and ask yourself what YOU want. Lord knows, we women like to talk and talk and talk...maybe you'll get enough QUIET to hear what YOU want.
Tough situation and I hope you can find yourself out of it.
Sending you support, L~
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