Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
Has Anyone made up a social media name pretending to be the spouse that has cheated on you ? and talked with the lover , either being a male or female? like make the same name up on F/B as your spouse and message the one ? and got some answers of the truth ?
I was thinking of making the wifes name , and message this clown, because I am not getting straight answers , just 2 words .. is suppose to make this all go away , and my Son finally came fwd and told me he over heard his mother's phone convo's when i was home , or a sleep she would sneak out side he worked nights while living here she thought he was a sleep if she was out in the patio his bedroom widow was open .. he explained this one of the reasons why he moved out this is on going in my mind , when i wanna talk about it, all iget from her i need help and nothing happened , but at times when she manipulates the conversation she doesnt think before she speaks , now she's mocking the manhood , and when i ask did you have bigger , she pauses then says no !
it's a battle fight , she also likes to control everything , seems like someone a another female is filling her head with stupid advice, her best friend that we know has multi affairs on her husband as well , but i know she was told not to admit to anothing because of the assets we have she could lose in a divorce , but i have documents saved .. old phone
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check out that smoke ring. It tasted really good. I smothered it with Maulls BBQ sauce which is Local to St. Louis and one of the best I ever had.....
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I'm horrified! I knew my insurance would go up due to getting a new car but I didn't expect it to go up over $2,000. I did have an accident with the snow/ice in the winter. I was just telling my brother that I have had my car since March 2, 2026 and have only spent $75 on an oil change. Now this! I called another insurance company and their quote was over $4,000. I guess I have to pay...
I guess you have to ask yourself -
What will I do with the information that I may or may not get?
Will this guy notice that it is a brand new profile and he'll just give me fake answers?
Am I doing this because I am READY to divorce her?
Let's say you find out nothing. That everything is on the up and up. Will she be mad because you checked up on her, made the fake profile, went behind her back and posed as her? Will this fake profile ruin any trust that there is between you two?
Just some questions to ponder first. Take a moment to think this through before reacting in an impulsive way of making this fake profile of her. I'm not saying you should or shouldn't do this fake profile. That is completely up to you. But, just be ready for the aftermath and be ready for what your next step will be. There might not be any coming back from doing this, as far as trust goes, so just take a breath and think it through first.
Good luck.
IMO, there's never an excuse to pretend to be another person on social media. It's very junior high. They are already dishonest to you, why join in and give her more fuel?
Are you hoping to find more stuff so you can stick her during the divorce? Or are you delaying the divorce process by getting distracted? You have enough "evidence".
Wife has total control over you now. Take back the control in your life by controlling your thinking and reactions. Understand that asking if his blank are better than yours only destroys your self esteem. It’s not about his blank anyway. I
Your choice in this is to get counseling and help to move forward or to stay in the argument and wrestling for control of the marriage. She wants control over you but you also want control over her. With a nefarious one, we never have a happy relationship because that is not what they want.
You get to choose to seek higher and better or stay in the mud. Seeking higher and better means you have to change, staying in the mud means you get to be how you are now. Your life, your choice. Make up a fake social media page if you want to stay in the mud. You aren’t going to learn anything that makes you happy but you might get some bittersweet pay-back.
My hubby is definitely texting a girl he cheated on me a few years ago. This after me looking after him for 2 months while he was sick in bed and not able to do work.
I’ve thought of messaging her supposed boyfriend who she lives with to tell him, but I don’t feel like it will help my situation.
So I’m just trying my hardest to think about moving on, if this is the thanks I get for running him round to emergency & doctors & bringing him food & everything.
(while I was supposed to be giving my kids a good school holidays)
Hope things work out for you. Good luck!
I waited for her to text him. She never contacted him again.