Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I sort of regret that I ever got married I came from a good background/family/parents/education/ always worked hard, never tried bad things
The only thing I can say I am glad for is that I never wanted to have children out of wed lock I never wanted my kids to say my parents had me when they werent married and if I did have kids (which I do) 2 boys I would want them when I was married which I did.
But besides that what was the point? I know thats an opened ended question. But does anyone else regret getting married? What the heck is marriage worth these days?
The only thing I can say I am glad for is that I never wanted to have children out of wed lock I never wanted my kids to say my parents had me when they werent married and if I did have kids (which I do) 2 boys I would want them when I was married which I did.
But besides that what was the point? I know thats an opened ended question. But does anyone else regret getting married? What the heck is marriage worth these days?
Sometimes we must live with regrets. Especially when we are the perpetrators of the pain to others. I would love to say; "I like to think that I have made no true mistakes because everything has taught me something." I cannot. I have made some VERY huge mistakes from which it appears I learned nothing. And that is a regret I will forever live with. Perhaps BlueKnight is right. "I didn't learn the first time, then it needed to happen again." Unfortunately the person who means the most to me had to be devastated so I could learn a lesson I should NOT have needed to learn!
Really no point in wishing one had never married since one can't change the past. It's like wishing my husband had never cheated - it doesn't change what is, nor what may be. All we can do is move forward. We chose to move forward together, but even apart it's still moving forward, not erasing what was.