About 6 months ago I found out my husband of 36 years cheated on me with a married" woman". I haven't been the same since. I cry everyday. I don't understand how he can betray me and lie like this.It has been over for about a year and here are the things he says to me:
Says he loves me and always has ,wants to spend the rest of his life with me.( When I talk about divorce or separation he won't hear of it).
I told him i wish things could get back to how we were and he said they will because I am the most important person in his life and nothing is ever going to change that.
Says doesn't give a shit about her and is not going to ruin a 36 year marriage because of her.
Says it's in the past and didn't see it as a big deal and never in his wildest dreams did he think i would be hurt so badly .
Says he wishes it never would have happened but it's done and what do I want him to do now?
I told him things are different between us now and he says they are not, it's all in my head.
I don't understand how you can love someone and cheat on them.
I haven't told anyone not even our daughter so thank you for listening to me.
I NEED HELP!
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