Deejo, you are right. It is a dark secretive side. A side that has shocked me out of my shoes. I still can not believe it!

I read your story and I am sorry you had to deal with your husband's lustful ways towards another woman.

Thanks for everyone's support.

I too just recently "caught" my husband texting with someone he randomly found on a craigs list personal ad. He has apologized and says he loves me and doesn't want to be apart or single. We have been married almost 6 years. He said he never went thru with the "hook-up" and that it was the first time he was planning to meet her. In the past he apparently only chatted with them? I don't know what to believe anymore. I am sick to my stomach with not being able to trust anything anymore. How long has it been going on and I have been so naive?
I have only been faithful and a good and supportive wife and why is this happening? He says he doesn't know what compells him to lie to me or to look at porm and personals.

I told him if he had any hope of saving our marriage he needed to get therapy to stop. I don't know though if I could ever forgive him. I understand affairs and probably would feel a little better if this had been one instead of a prostitute. I feel so ashamed and sad and angry and hurt by his selfish actions.

Jom I understand how you feel. Especially when you say you would feel a little better if it had been an affair than prostitutes... because in actuality I think I would too.

I still have not confronted my husband. But Jom do not put anything past him. He may have actually met with one. He will only admit to what you know or what he thinks you know. I am so sorry,

You have my support for we are both going through this horrible time.

Wow...I certainly would not call him a man after he does that. Real men love at home, not pay for it from a dirty option. I hate to say this, but hopefully your plans includes a std / health check. Wow...it blows me away that anyone can cheat like this. So gross and no honor of any kind. True pig.