Sounds like this is all about dicks and not about relationships. I think there is alot more to a relationship than just your dick. I'm sure she had plenty of time to assess your dick early on in the process of your relationship.

If your relationship is based off of your dick, then it is no surprise that this relationship has ended. If her new relationship is all about the other guys dick, then the relationship is pretty pathetic in my eyes. It may be a lasting relationship with him, but let's pray that that relationship doesn't have any real life unfortunate events that prevents her from enjoying his dick. Because the dick is connected to a human being... with values, love, intelligence, a soul. But forget about all that crap. The man has a dick. The almighty dick,

It is good that his brain and his motor skills are in tact so that he can pleasure her with his dick. God forbid for him to get a serious illness or something that will prevent him from using his dick on her... which is so amazing and all emcompassing. God bless his dick.

OK I agree with you all but I don't care anymore. I am reading a good book called acceptance and it's helped me as much as you guys have.

Thanks

People say stupid meaningless shit to exonerate themselves from blame. What was she going to say? "Oh I left because I'm a whoring cheating slut"

Or

"Well actually new guy has a much SMALLER penis". Do you really think she's say either of those? Nope.

Very true Still! to exonerate themselves or to purposely hurt the other partner. It seems you've overheard her say derogatory things about you more than once, I wouldn't doubt she's saying these things when she knows you'll hear her to purposely hurt you.

Bob, if I remember correctly, the two of you were married a long time, if she was so unhappy and unsatisfied with you, your penis size, your sex life, your relationship then why did she stay with you all those years.

Exactly leather. YOU had nothing to do with it. SHE made her choices. If she was unhappy, that's hers to deal with.

Please don't take anything "da ex" says as gospel, especially in this context.

Yeah my ex, started dumping all the shit on my porch when she left too...bottom line was...she was unfaithful and she needed to place blame....she said some very cruel things....and it really hurt me deeply...but one day i said "STOP". I told her to take her dump truck of crap she was trying to dump on my front porch and stick it up her ass.

You my dear friend are wonderfully and fearfully made...each one of us has a purpose...and there is no cruelty that can overtake us from our destiny and our purpose...there is a grand beauty in that...so never ever let the cheap shots stick man...be like flint and let that shit fly off!

4 years post divorce.....I am happy she is gone now...I have so many wonderful friends now and so many people tell me daily what a blessing I am....and if my dick isnt great for one gal...O well...I had another one spend hours down there and she told me she could do it all day and love it...

Find the blessing in the disaster...it does come though we have to be patient to find it at times....