I'm on testosterone therapy. What's the important info?

Thanks peter, I understand what you are saying.

Bubba, make sure you are getting plenty of exercise. If you don't, the testosterone will turn to estrogin and increase your chances of cancer. I can't explain the chemistry on that but it a nutshell, thats what happens.

A doctor told me that.

Right. My urologist told me the same. Get plenty of exercise. T shots got me motivated into weightlifting again.

Bob, you were married a long time, if she didn't feel the two of you were sexually compatible, in all those years did she ever talk to you about it. Did she tell you what she wanted/needed sexually or did she think you were a mind reader and should just know what her desires are?

I agree with Peter, not sexually compatible doesn't mean it's a penis size issue.

What kills me is that my hubby thinks he is too small, but when he's rock hard he fits in me just right & I have amazing orgasms.....

Only he feels like he's not enough to satisfy me which sometimes gives him performance issues that just aren't there......

I get what you guys are saying but my ex just wasn't flexible with positions and technique. She had to have it her way or she was unsatisfied. When she was on top grinding on me for example, I use to guide her hips so my dick would stay inside but just before she came, she would go to far in her excitement even though I would try to hold her back a bit, so my dick would always slip out.

Leather, she use to tell me repeated that the reason why she stayed with me so long is because nobody could make her laugh as much as I could. I was a real clown most of the time.....but.....even clowns cry sometime!

Peterpaul said: "Sometimes women get jealous or upset from their girlfriends' sex stories with their men that it could cause your own girlfriend to feel she is not being satisfied enough"

Truer words were never said! You will find (at least I did) that women embellish, exaggerate and even downright lie when they're talking to girlfriends about their sex lives. I eventually learned to take what I hear with a big grain of rock salt.

The truth is it is very, very rare that I even have orgasms brought by intercourse and it depends on a lot of simultaneous conditions. The right g-spot stimulation, the right position, the right length (or number) of times -- sometimes it takes 2 or 3 times to build me up enough. Size is a factor to me more in terms of girth and shape than length -- too much length is wasted IMO. The shape goes back to hitting my g-spot the right way, as does the position(s). Also it's embarrassing to admit but it's much more likely to happen for me if I have just the right level of THC buzz going on.

Women who can just fuck and have orgasms every time is an incomprehensible phenomenon to me. For a long time, the expectation that this was the norm ruined intercourse for me and drove a lot of men out of my life. I had to learn to accept that orgasms don't happen as easily for me as they do for some women. While I believe that some women come with little effort, I don't think it's nearly as many as say they do.

Thankyou spiky. If I had about 2 more inches in length, my ex and I would have had a more fulfilling sexual relationship, I am sure of that. But getting back to what leather said, yes it was good at one time and now that I think of it, over the years she put on alot of weight and began to have self esteem issues because of that so it became much more difficult for her to cum. That was it, that was the biggest problem!

Man I hope she doesn't read this! I am spilling my sexual guts!

Peterpaul, he wouldn't get a straight answer out of her. She would just say something that would hurt him.

I agree, Viv

It is always easier to blame the partner rather than own your part in th lacking...
hugs bob

Petter I didn't have to ask because when she cheated on me, she volunteered the information by telling me how great this guys dick was.

Viv ur right. Nancy, not sure I understand what you are saying.

Now, a year has passed since our divorce and her relationship with her lover is in limbo. We get along better then we did and she is not apt to say hurtful things like she once did. Now when I ask, she is more likely to tell me what she thinks I want to hear instead of telling me the truth.

Thats the way it stands right now.

Bob, I sure hope you haven't given in and slept with her again. Stay strong bro!

No I haven't Okie. Although I get pretty horny I would rather jerk off to porn.

Oh, Bob, honey. You deserve Love, as do I. I had nothing 22 years of pity sex, joyless, soul destroying. It has left me wounded, broken, bleeding, but I will heal.

I hate to resurrect an old post but something else came up and it wasn't my dick unfortunately. To answer some previous replies, I was my ex's first so she really had nothing to compare me to until she cheated on me.

I overheard her talking about me to someone else in which she said she had no use for an old shriveled up nubby and that she was more then satisfied with her lover's 6 inch dick.

Man that hurt!