I am exactly in the same page. More I grow up more sex i want. I think this is normal and beautiful. Could be the opposite and that’s worst

Hi

I'm in the same position. I would love to have an active sex life with my husband. But due the physical disabilities and the side effects of his medications, he has a very low libido.

As much as I love sex, I love my husband more.

He has told me that talking about his sexual situation makes him feel even more inadequate than he currently feels because he is unable to please me as he would like to.

I know if the shoe were on the other foot, I would not want my husband continually discussing my lack of sexual ability with me. Here, try this. I read on Facebook about this . Why dont you do wear this. Continually pointing out my shortcomings, and although I'm pleasing in all other aspects of our marriage, to be made to feel as if I am a failure because I can't engage in sex.

I would hope that me husband loved me enough to make a sacrifice for me. That is why I make the sacrifice for him.

Yard Eggs you have my absolute respect. You are precious and your husband is lucky to have you as wife.
Is very rear to find people like you .

OIP,

I just strive to treat my husband with the same love, affection, honesty, respect and dignity with which I would expect to be treated by him.

The Golden Rule applies to marriages also. ;)

You are absolutely right. I wish all of us could do the same and receive the same from our partners.
My wife in 20 years together even the word love can not say to me. In 25 years we are together she told me only 5 times “ I love you “ and this is not a joke.
I don’t even want to think how could be my life if I was sick in the bed.

I'm 35. I want it waaaay more now than when I was 25. I'll be a fully nympho by the time I'm 45. But the size difference you mentioned points to something possibly medical going on and it sounds like he already has ED. They have pills and shot for ED and low testerone. Talk about it with him now before you get married. Because it won't change and you will be in a sexless marriage. Those conditions only get worse with time.

Hi there, we are having an opposite type of problem. The problem is - my wife started to act more neutral for the last few years. You see, she is a wonderful woman who gave birth to our second child, named Kate. And our first happiness is Daniel who is 6 years old now. Except for her mother, we are having a wonderful family. Our relationship is full of trust and understanding. But now 2 years have passed after the last child was born and we both have noticed that she is not into sex mood more and more often. Yeah, after "heating up" her a little with www.lady-era.net and stuff like that it all goes well. But we both really want our normal sex life back. Could it be postpartum depression? Does she still need more time? I'm sure that my body is in good condition so pushing her away with my beer belly option is excluded. And I don't really know what to recommend to you because I don't know what to do either.

First, you're not in the wrong. You are normal

Second, sex is a very important part of marriage to a lot of people.

Third, if you and your fiance dont address this issue now it WILL get worse.

Forth, it sounds like ED. Seeing a doctor is the first step. But if all medical reasons for his ED and lack of libido are ruled out he needs to try counceling to find out the cause.

If he refuses to seek help your choices are as follows:

Learn to love and live with eachother without sex

End the relationship now and wish eachother luck in future endevours

Get married and watch as your sexual frustration turns into resentment.

Cheat. Or agree to have an "open" relationship where you can keep your best friend and get your sexual needs met elsewhere.

Present these options to him. See which one is best for the both of you.

My stbx did have issues (diabetic and bp meds...) and wound up with ED. Then one day something happened and he just stopped...no more attempts, but was (still is) content with NO physical touch or affection. The old adage "use it or lose it" is very true. His has disappeared (like a frightened turtle)
When this first started to happen, I just figured it was the norm... seemed to know many others who care very little about sex anymore. But then I started reaching out and chatting with others... realizing all that i have missed (and am missing now). Then I discovered I am not some nympho wanna be (well maybe... lol) I am just human and desperately want to feel that connection again.
I will say that resentment has grown between us because of this too. Enough that I feel the need to move on.

Good luck to you. Maybe if he speaks with his Dr? Cialis use to work for us... (or maybe if he tried a cock ring to keep things going for a bit?
Hugs

Same. I could go every day (and do some how) but she doesn't want it that much. It's frustrating

I can feel you totally. Sometimes try to spice it up and do things out of the box. Being spontaneous can assist also, could be a turn on.

:)

thank you all for your replies

I feel like all is my fault but i know it is not, my fiance quit drinking 30 years ago and turned to weed and 2 years ago he was forced to quit that also by me and his kids, he has seen a doctor about this problem and nothing works he has tried pills to help ed.
now it is just me having to try live without the sex that i crave
he is in a 12 step program and so am i but i don't seem to be getting anywhere and feel guilty about everything. I know that he loves me in some of the things he does and then with other things that he does i dont know.

i dont know what to do anymore about this relationship.
he has a temper that scares me

I was a girl with good morals my husband is the only man I've ever had sex with because he's the only man I've ever loved.even being with him for 15 years and having a child.sure not everyday is going to be sunshine and roses.as I'm use to sex on average 3 times a week.if it ever came to where he stopped it would make me feel insecure like he wasn't attracted to me or just no longer loved me. Its like at night time when we go to bed I need to be able to cuddle him even if its a short time as well as kiss him.if he don't feel well its 1 thing.the longest I ever went with out sex with him was a year because he was in the military and did 2 tours to Iraq and that was hard.so anyway in sorry for any1 who has a sexless or unaffection marriage.

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