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Perfect amount of sex ?

Dogg75
Dogg75
The boards are pretty quiet for the holidays, so I'll propose a topic.
How many times a week would you have sex if you had a willing partner
and could decide the frequency. We can call it the "horny meter."

ME: 5 times a week

If its something you're willing to disclose , what's your age ?
[To determine if there is a correlation]

ME: I'm 40
cowboy357
cowboy357
At least 21 times a week.. I'm 49 yrs. old
A minumum of 3 hrs each time..
She's willing her health isn't...
cowboy357
cowboy357
we do average 4 - 6 times a week though, time vary's , quality always awesome !!
marytcontrary
marytcontrary
Man!!! Cowboy you would wear me out!!!
I get pretty horny about 2 or 3 times a week. Lately it has been less. Toys just lay there and I have to do all the work!!!!
I think my best would be 3 times or so a week if I had my way. My age, well, 50 is a memory!!!
koolman
koolman
If I find my willing partner really hot, 100 times a week. I'd make loving her my full-time obsession, occupying all my waking hours and even haunting my dreams. OK, allowing time for work, paying bills and domestic chores, 100 times a week is not practical. Let's say 50 times a week, sometimes quickies, sometimes really long and slow.
cowboy357
cowboy357
Koolman at 50 to 100 times a week you'd have to be a quick shooter.

Me & most of the women I've been with prefer it to last awhile & enjoy the feeling & our time together..I've always prefrered hours in/with my woman.

But to each his own preference..
billwfriend
billwfriend
been too long since I had sex to remember what it is even like....so I have no answer here....me I am 58 and if I got lucky one time a week it would be a blessing!
LisaACOA
LisaACOA
I just turned 50. At least twice a day would be nice. I have some lost time to make up for... so maybe more. lol
shortie72
shortie72
At least 15 times a week, some days more than others however each week would depend on work, no better way to destress and exercise if short on time
I'm 43
itson
itson
63 hours a week? 50 to 100 times a week? I never tried to count and I get my fair share of tail, but I've never had a desire to have that much sex.
koolman
koolman
I AM a quick shooter. I was more half-joking than anything. We should really be talking about the perfect QUALITY of sex, HOW we like to do it, whether we require candle-light and wine to get in the mood or can "get right to it". Shop Talk Sex. Inquiring minds want to know.
Dogg75
Dogg75
No romance required for me. It's cold outside . We come in take our coats off . I see my girlfriends erect nipples and it's "game on".

Of course I'm a guy , so what do you expect? I have to reel myself in and slow it down for her. I find that warming up the engine a little works better for women. And that good, cause I love foreplay.
koolman
koolman
Amen, Dogg. And you've KNOWN your GF for awhile, so have built up that comfort level. First date jitters suck.
JustAguy50
JustAguy50
I would love to be having it two or three times a week.. Saturday mornings were always my favorite time but I would love to have it in the afternoon maybe right when I got home from work also
onetoomany
onetoomany
It would depend on how old the relationship is.

If a new relationship....Every day!
Once the notoriety wears off, 3 times a week is good.
drew4lostluv
drew4lostluv
I was in a relationship with a woman for 10 years and for most of our relationship we had a very active sex life.
I have learned from experience that sex is best for me when I can have sex with a woman 4 to five times in 1 day. Tease the hell out of each other for 2 days and repeat on the third.
So my answer would be 8 to 10 times a week.
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