Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
Ladies I've seen it before on here so I know size doesn't matter. yep, I understand that. But truly if you're dating a new guy and he is small when you first undo his pants or get with him or feel him up do you inwardly cringe? Are you truthfully hoping it's going to be big in your mind or at least you're hoping it's not going to be small? And how about when he's flaccid? If he's like an acorn until he springs up is that a bother? Isn't it more exciting to you when you're laying around or playing that he has something swinging around as opposed to something that's a nub? I have to think that yes it's important to know what to do with what you have but psychologically speaking there has to be an added element to having a man that's decently endowed. There's a reason that men and women are attracted to longer, larger penises in porn and in real life. For women it just seems like it wouuld be more fun and fulfilling. If it's small then there'd always be some uneasiness in my mind. For reproduction, a longer penis may have better odds of impregnating a woman. Doesn't the woman naturally draw towards men with longer or bigger penises just like many are drawn to stronger, more confident, more athletic men? I have to believe you all when you say it doesn't matter so much but also I think that there is something to what I'm saying. I've read many an article that shows women do actually prefer a bigger penis for their enjoyment, truthfully, not some dumb enlargement pill ad. Sure there are exceptions to this but overall I think it has to be true. If the average is about 6 inches and the circumference is about 4 inches, that's an average. That means every other guy could be about 7-8 inches while the others could be 4-5 inches. Aren't you hoping that it's a little better than average? Or am I wrong about this truthfully? Is it like a guy comparing breast sizes? Some want big while others don't care? What's your take on all this please?
Just because she sends him messages about him having a large penis doesn't mean that it was larger than yours (in reality) or that she dumped you because yours was small.
I don't think I'd dump a guy for having a small penis. If his hands and mouth do the work appropriately, I like him as a person, he has a good sexual compatibility with me, what does it matter how big his dick is?
If he can't reach my cervix, my glass dildo can and he can use that on me to get that sensation.
My first experience with a penis ended up being my husband and the father of my son...he was a white guy with a larger than average penis...and I loved it and him...i enjoyed sex...it was pretty amazing...it was so amazing that I still remember the night our son was concieved over 18 years ago...there was also a time that was so pleasuring that I cried...unfortunately that relationship and marriage ended when my son was 2...the sex was so good that it continued for about 5 years then we divorced. for 5 years after that I was celibate...i couldn't even consider sex with anyone else...then I guess I kinda caved and just started messing around with men...so I saw a few more penises here and there...some were bigger some were smaller but they really didn't measure up to him in my opinion...I think because they didn't know what they were doing...then...I met my current husband...he's african american...and you know what they say about that...well I don't think it's true...but I do know it doesn't matter...he is smaller in girth and length than my ex-husband...but good lord, does he know how to use it! ...believe me when I say, that I love my current husband's penis much more than I ever loved my ex-husbands ...so in response to your original question...NO! size doesn't matter...it's what you do with it...and my current husband knows exactly what to do with it...I can orgasm just thinking about it and about what he's done with it!!!...oh...and another thing...my ex-husband introduced me to oral sex and he loved to do it and I loved to have it done!...current husband...not so much...but I don't care...he knows how to use his smaller package just fine to make up for that.