Ladies I've seen it before on here so I know size doesn't matter. yep, I understand that. But truly if you're dating a new guy and he is small when you first undo his pants or get with him or feel him up do you inwardly cringe? Are you truthfully hoping it's going to be big in your mind or at least you're hoping it's not going to be small? And how about when he's flaccid? If he's like an acorn until he springs up is that a bother? Isn't it more exciting to you when you're laying around or playing that he has something swinging around as opposed to something that's a nub? I have to think that yes it's important to know what to do with what you have but psychologically speaking there has to be an added element to having a man that's decently endowed. There's a reason that men and women are attracted to longer, larger penises in porn and in real life. For women it just seems like it wouuld be more fun and fulfilling. If it's small then there'd always be some uneasiness in my mind. For reproduction, a longer penis may have better odds of impregnating a woman. Doesn't the woman naturally draw towards men with longer or bigger penises just like many are drawn to stronger, more confident, more athletic men? I have to believe you all when you say it doesn't matter so much but also I think that there is something to what I'm saying. I've read many an article that shows women do actually prefer a bigger penis for their enjoyment, truthfully, not some dumb enlargement pill ad. Sure there are exceptions to this but overall I think it has to be true. If the average is about 6 inches and the circumference is about 4 inches, that's an average. That means every other guy could be about 7-8 inches while the others could be 4-5 inches. Aren't you hoping that it's a little better than average? Or am I wrong about this truthfully? Is it like a guy comparing breast sizes? Some want big while others don't care? What's your take on all this please?