Healthy Sex Support Group
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Ladies I've seen it before on here so I know size doesn't matter. yep, I understand that. But truly if you're dating a new guy and he is small when you first undo his pants or get with him or feel him up do you inwardly cringe? Are you truthfully hoping it's going to be big in your mind or at least you're hoping it's not going to be small? And how about when he's flaccid? If he's like an acorn until he springs up is that a bother? Isn't it more exciting to you when you're laying around or playing that he has something swinging around as opposed to something that's a nub? I have to think that yes it's important to know what to do with what you have but psychologically speaking there has to be an added element to having a man that's decently endowed. There's a reason that men and women are attracted to longer, larger penises in porn and in real life. For women it just seems like it wouuld be more fun and fulfilling. If it's small then there'd always be some uneasiness in my mind. For reproduction, a longer penis may have better odds of impregnating a woman. Doesn't the woman naturally draw towards men with longer or bigger penises just like many are drawn to stronger, more confident, more athletic men? I have to believe you all when you say it doesn't matter so much but also I think that there is something to what I'm saying. I've read many an article that shows women do actually prefer a bigger penis for their enjoyment, truthfully, not some dumb enlargement pill ad. Sure there are exceptions to this but overall I think it has to be true. If the average is about 6 inches and the circumference is about 4 inches, that's an average. That means every other guy could be about 7-8 inches while the others could be 4-5 inches. Aren't you hoping that it's a little better than average? Or am I wrong about this truthfully? Is it like a guy comparing breast sizes? Some want big while others don't care? What's your take on all this please?
A 5'0" Asian with a tiny little pussy probably won't want a well-hung 12" dick--it would stretch her out to the point of killing her with pain!
My current partner is just shy of 9 and depending on the day can be an "acorn" flaccid, as you describe it. I don't think length hard really has everything to do with how long they are hard.
Personally the size of a guy's dick isn't the first thing I think about though. What gets me hot is kissing them. Because kissing them gives me an idea of how well they'll eat me out. When their hands wander it gives me an idea of how good they'll finger me, etc. Since I don't get much orgasmic pleasure from intercourse itself the size of their dick REALLY doesn't matter when it comes to sex.
when i first touch a guy, i may have a moment of, "wow! this is bigger than i was expecting!" or the opposite. however, it has nothing to do with whether or not i think it will feel good or not. it is the same reaction as "wow! his eyes are really blue!" or "his skin is really soft!" its just me acknowledging a physical trait that i just noticed.
i have been with guys that are 4.5 inches and i have been with guys close to 10. i prefer smaller men. i would MUCH rather be with a guy who is only 5 than a guy who is 9. my husband is right about 7 and that is perfect most the time. but even HE hurts me sometimes and some positions just arent possible.
I like how Des describes it of being an acknowledgement of a physical trait.
My partner has occasional ED and that's not an issue at all for us so if that's not a problem for me, size isn't going to be a problem. There are many other things we do for my pleasure and for his pleasure that don't involve his penis.
The biggest I would want is seven inches and anything under 7 inches works well for me. Even though I'm big into pain stimulation, having my cervix pounded is not the kind of pain that is pleasurable to me at all. Some bumping of the cervix is fine but having it pounded with hard thrusting, not for me and for the most part, I like hard, fast thrusting.
I've been with show'ers and I've been with grow'ers, they're both great in my book. I've been with big, small and average but I've never been in a relationship with a guy that wasn't a great lover and who didn't completely satisfy my sexual needs. I don't keep lousy lovers around.
i know you don't mean that.
i really haven't seen that many penis's to render an objective opinion.
but what i will say, is i've liked every one i've seen in person.
i love the uniqueness about them all....i mean....those few i've seen.
really, i'm not kidding here.
question: what's an appropriate amount of penises for a woman to see?
penises?
peni?
guys, help me out.
But did you ever see a bent one? On first sight, you say oh my!
I do like perfectly shaped ones though. It's like a perfectly shaped body.. You just want to keep looking at it and touching it.
men love women who have great adoration for their penis.
My partner was circumcised extremely well and I could touch and look at it forever.