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is oral sex normal?

mcreathb
mcreathb
I was wondering what others think if oral sex is normal. Some girls have told me it is degrading. When I had a gf we didn't do it cause i didnt know if I was doing something wrong? Maybe I'm over thinking things. I didnt know relationships are so complicated when it comes to sex.
LivingWater
LivingWater
Remember Monica Lewinski? LOL (who doesn't) Recently she put herself in the spotlight, moaning that she was "the most humiliated woman on earth". Well IMHO she humiliated herself by constantly performing oral sex on Bill while HE refused to have intercourse with her. Personally I would never just be a "mouth" if the man didn't want to have intercourse.
deleted_user
deleted_user
What guy is going to turn down free blow jobs? LOL
Seriously...think about it. Some might but most will not.
LivingWater
LivingWater
I wasn't blaming Bill for, as you so delicately put it, "not turning down free blow jobs". I was blaming HER for allowing herself to be used for that act, and that act only. Even after she developed feelings of love for him, he didn't like her or trust her enough to have intercourse. That was degrading to her, but I don't think she fully realized that yet as a young girl.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I think you misunderstood me. I actually was agreeing with you. lol
A guy will be a guy. It is up to the girl to set the boundaries and the standard to how she will be treated. I agree with you. :)
LuvMyTitans
LuvMyTitans
really?

again?
wow.

good grief.