Healthy Sex Support Group
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However, I am still wondering exactly what-- if ANYTHING-- Mr. Tweedsie has to say about all of this.
DayKart, I actually rewrote that because I was a bit harsh and the situation didn't warrant that, had to hedge my reactions you know?
I pulled many, MANY punches in this thread. I'm still interested in what Mr. T has to say about the whole affair.
OF course, when the playing field is le\/el, why WOULD one want to?
Please understand, Daykart, that opinions are like assholes, everyone has one, but not everyone wants to smell it. There is no reason to attack others in the group cause you might have a different perspective, opinion, or insight. Every one's opinion counts, and if you want yours to count, back the hell off other's!!
Here's to Heathy Sex, and to Healthy dialogue in the pursuit of it!
Stick to the dicussion matter, or get the hell out of the discussion. The discussion was about interrupting your damn football game, not anything else!!!!
I realize we are all different. And that peoples opinions are as well.
BUT THIS IS A SUPPORT GROUP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
On a support group website!
Yes, I'll be the first to step up and say we have fun sometimes which some may not see to be supportive, when in all actuality it is very healing to many people.
This is no place for finger pointing or attacking.
I know theres a very fine line when you want (and have the right) to voice your opinion on here. But there also is a tactful way of doing it. And if it means bringing someone else's name into it, thats just uncalled for.
I know we are all on here for different things. Most everyone here has hurt in their life and sometimes that causes us to see things a certain way that might offend others.
It just REALLY FUCKING SUCKS when there are people that say they won't be back or won't be joining in here b/c of the banter that takes place from time to time.
We have said it once, and I'll say it again.
IF YOU HAVE AN OPINION OR STATEMENT THAT IS GOING TO BE BRINGING SOMEONES NAME INTO IT, YOU NEED TO TAKE IT UP IN PRIVATE MESSAGES!!!
This is NOT the place for it, as it brings others down.
No one else needs to see what is said between the people bickering except the ones that are in it. (And I'm not just talking about you guys in this thread - this has happened quite a few times with all different people.)
I just love this group. I have come to love and/or respect just about everyone in it. I want to protect it and help keep it a fun place people can come to get away from the seriousness of all the other groups. And I know there are many that stand behind me.
There - theres my 2cents. I just care way too much about this place to sit back and be quiet.
I told him he can have half-time and that's it.
I'll add a bit more to this, and then let it die
Check the HISTORY, it has officially been a bash daykart day at this point, read the threads, he and tweedsie had an issue due to a snide comment made, they settled it and life was mo\/ing on
Then it got messy when Daykart was called a fucking prick, an ass, and numerous comments were thrown at him about how nobody WANTS to be with him, without backup, without factual documentation
Where was the support then? When you get slapped, you slap BACK and I don't blame him in the least, simply because the user in question isn't warm fuzzy bunnies, but dark and contro\/ersial, it's DIFFERENT in that case, Just because he doesn't follow "the rules" (what you may percie\/e them to be) doesn't mean he is less deser\/ing of support, nor should he be drummed out of the community
I'll make the suggestion here that I make in the D&BU community, fabulous option called "IGNORE USER" Don't like what's someone is saying, hit it, and it alllllllllll goes away, I would ne\/er use it because whether I like someone or not, all opinions are \/alid, and someone I don't care for may post something useful/helpful to me, or ask something that maybe I can offer assistance with, why would I stop a potential source of information????