Healthy Sex Support Group
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Ok so fall is quickly approaching, and with it the football season. Not speaking for all, but most men are turning on the game to see every collision, pass and interception as if they may never see another game. LOL
Ladies, have any of you interrupted a game with your own pass or sexual collision in order to facilitate a timeout for bedroom replay. Do any of you simply strut your stuff in order to take his attention away from the boob tube and make him focus on your boobs while you focus on his tube. What were the results, success or denial?
Never, had this type of welcome interruption and would love to hear details
Ladies, have any of you interrupted a game with your own pass or sexual collision in order to facilitate a timeout for bedroom replay. Do any of you simply strut your stuff in order to take his attention away from the boob tube and make him focus on your boobs while you focus on his tube. What were the results, success or denial?
Never, had this type of welcome interruption and would love to hear details
My hubby & i are football fanatics...and half time is just enough for a quickie before returning to the game = ]
No .. No .. No. You are supposed to have sex for the first two quarters (nothing much really happens then). Then spend half time getting nourishment. Then you watch the last part of the game - the only part that realy counts. If your team wins -- it's time for celebration sex.
Holy shit, what a frightening thought.
Plus, he is also a major hockey fan, so when that starts (Especially if the Red Wings are playing) I have to wait. lol
First, I would generalize the issue to be one partner has an activity they really like and enjoy, and the other really isn't into it as much or at all. (If you both enjoy it, there really isn't a built-in conflict.) I would guess the conflict stems from insecurity, which comes out as jealousy that this activity is liked or more important than me. And this would be why it's "necessary" to force a choice while the activity is going on, to demonstrate what's more important.
OK, now if I choose the example of the guy wanting to watch football, and his (not into football) gal trying to initiate sex during the game, I can see how what is being said isn't really addressing what the problem is. And in reality, any course of action or discussion at that point will most likely be counter-productive, as both can't focus their attention on what they want at the same time.
In the end, the problem is not about football or sex. You could scratch out football and write in talking with girlfriends and the feelings might switch genders. Of course, any solution that doesn't address the real feelings involved probably won't work no matter how much they seem to address the issues that are spoken.
It's taken me a long time to finally realize when something comes up and we start talking but the emotions don't match the words, then we are not talking about what's really on our minds. Depending on personalities, we can get so involved on "being right" or "what's the point" that our emotions make it impossible to get anything resolved.
Bob
P.S. For the record, I'm very amenable to being distracted. LOL.
Daykart that was pretty rude...I'm the one who set up his account for him...not him. He wouldn't be here if it wasn't to spend time with me while I am on working through our issues...but thanks for being such an ass!
Clearly Daykart you are just jealous nobody is wanting to interrupt your football game...not that you don't want them to as you say.
Hugs - Tweedsie (and I love my name and his)
Look, I'm a reasonably good-looking, in-shape, professional young man in Southern California. Getting pussy is really NOT a problem for me. I hate to bring this up in this manner, but it seems that whenever someone feels offended, they will invariably attack the offender's sexual prowess. Tweed & Tweedsman, if it makes you feel better, I also have a 2" cock. Go nuts, guys.
When it all comes down to nuts & bolts though, I'm very happy to enjoy my leisure time by myself. Yes, I LOVE to fuck, but whenever a woman uses her vagina as leverage, the romance is DONE. The day I sign on as "DayKartsman" is the day I jump off a bridge.
As I wrote before, having to deal with such bumbling "seductions" from a hausfrau stuffed into a novelty cheerleader's uniform is pretty much my definition of hell.
Oh christ, I'm so fucking glad I'm single...
first I'm just tweedsie...and I didn't attack your sexual prowess or do I care about your 2" cock.
I love football...so much so I was born on superbowl sunday...I'm not kidding...I don't own a novelty cheerleading uniform...cuz I have a real one :)
One more thing...I don't use my vagina as leverage...I don't have to :)
Just a thought maybe your hand would like to sign on as DayKartsman...
Hugs - Tweedsie :)
Again, you make me so fucking glad that I'm single...and even gladder that I'm not tweedsiesman.
I think you could use a hug :)
Hugs - Tweedise :)
"Sure, tweeds, whatever you say."
Now, much like tweedsiesman would do, I'm going out for a beer.
Hugs - T
If you are impying that I kiss her ass ... you are absoultely wrong.
She doesn't have to ues her vagina to get her way. Her vagina is not a tool.
I am perfectly comfortable with who I am. I don't have to macho things up just to build up my confidence.
Your prickish attitude and your inability to say that you could be someone elses man is probably the real reason that you are single.
Go have your beer, smoke some cigars, hit a couple of strips clubs ... what a man.
tweedsiesman, you are a DREAMBOAT. Call me "tweedsiesmansman"
How I choose to spend my time is irrelevent; I'm not the one asking permission from anyone, after all. Hey tweedsiesman, if tweedsie allows you, you wanna hit the races later on???
What a healthy relationship you two must have! Once again, I am overjoyed that I am single. No, wait, according to post #36, I'm jealous of this controlling, passive-aggressive horror-show.