Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
You're bright and are getting it all together. Keep your zen,
Couple of years ago when our sex life was almost non-existing, my gf came up with the idea and suggested it to me. First, I was little (read extremely) skeptical about it, but then I decided to give it a chance...
My gf is Finnish and we agreed, it would be better to try it first somewhere, where there is no chance to be caught. Then, when we were on holiday in Finland we found this couple on this one site, who shared our interest to try swinging. I have to admit that the first time we tried swinging, it felt really weird...have sex with some random girl and knowing that some guy is doing your gf in the next room. Didn't feel quite right, but simultaneously it felt really exciting and kinky.
Swapping partners is not for everyone and I strongly suggest you talk things through with your partner before trying it. However, to us it has been a good experience and probably saved our relationship. I feel I can now trust my gf better and that these experiments have made our relationship stronger. I don't have to be afraid that she'd cheat on me and vice versa I can also enjoy sex with others.
Does anyone here have any similar experiences?
Why do you feel that you don't" have to be afraid that she'd cheat on me and vice versa I can also enjoy sex with others."
Technically she could go off and screw someone without you knowing and you could do the same thing - or is that something acceptable in your relationship?