Sorry tossed i see this alot. Its seems when people go through tough times they lash out at the ones closest to them.. Its fucked up since it should be that they go to that person for comfort.. I never understood this either..

I know what you're saying Toss and I don't get it either. I've never had it happen to me with stbxh or with my partner but my 28 year old son, I'm his emotional punching bag whether it's when his depression is at a high, if he's having g/f problems, if he didn't get enough sleep or he's sick. WTF!

because your Dad is the "safe" one Tossed. If she did that to someone else it prolly wouldn't go over so well but with your Dad, she knows that he will let her work through the anger, pain, etc. & not lash out at her. Sorry you're going through this.

whew! it is -3 with windchill here this morning! i guess my morning jog is out for today! all well, i will just use that time to study some more!

31 for the high, not a great day for a funeral, but a day to say farewell to a Great woman.

Tossed - i have seen this in people before - a lot of times i think they lash out because they don't know how to handle a situation and when stressed and upset they wind up being angry instead -frustrated maybe. she may not mean what she does or says but is showing her sadness in a different way - not that it is a good way of course. ?

I'm planting taters, carrots and onions Saturday.

Lucky you Itson, no gardening up here with this weather not to mention the frozen ground.

I am procrastinating way too much today, I have a ton of errands to run which should have been done already but it's only 8 degrees which is beyond nipply out there plus it kicks my asthma in big time. I so don't want to brave this cold weather but I have to. Sitting here with my coffee in my warm house is so much inviting but ..........

Going to get slutted up and hopefully take my musician home tonight and finish up what we started a couple of weeks ago....

He's handsome, grabby and all fuckn hands. I love it.

That's my random statement.

gah. i am so freaking tired today! i dont know what the deal is! i have been trying to study all day and i have to read the same paragraph 3 times just to get my brain to process the information! I have a quiz tonight! i need to wake up! i just took an energy shot. Hopefully it will wake me up without giving me heart issues. I am going to go do some laundry, dishes, and pick up a little bit and see if moving around will help.

I see London I see France. Oh let's face it, my vision ain't that good. :)

Great avi Recon


A special thanks to all of my DS family, this week has been tough, your thoughts have been very appreciated

Fish heads, fish heads, roly poly fish heads. Fish heads, fish heads. Eat 'em up. Yum

managed to eek out another 100% on my last quiz. now to study all weekend for my first TEST on tuesday and another quiz on thursday!

That's great Des! I bet your daughter is proud of her tutoring job too.