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Hey guys and mostly girls I am in a bad way. Well I posted on here about 3 weeks ago about how I screwed things up with a girl that I really liked. She didn't want to talk to me. She wouldn't message me. She completely ignored me until now.
I said this. You wait until now to contact me and I am supposed to be okay with it. Not a word in three weeks and now here you are. I wish I never met you. Don't message me anymore.
What gets me is when we started talking, after about 3 days of talking to her, I told her that I wasn't ready to date and I would only hurt the both of us. She told me something that made me fall for her right then. It's my choice whether I want to be with you or not. I guess that statement meant a lot more to me than it did her. She pretty much stomped on me and not going to give her a chance to do it again. I am acting like a woman right now. Crying and just really screwed up. I know that I shouldn't have let her in because we had only been talking a couple of weeks, that's why I tried to walk away. But when she told me that she wanted to still try that made me think that she liked me more than she did obviously.
Not all women do this to me. I have only dated 2 girls that I really liked like this. I screw things up with them.
It's not fair that she can make me wait for weeks when I think about her every day. I know she's not good for me so that's why I told her not to contact me again. I am so screwed up right now.
I said this. You wait until now to contact me and I am supposed to be okay with it. Not a word in three weeks and now here you are. I wish I never met you. Don't message me anymore.
What gets me is when we started talking, after about 3 days of talking to her, I told her that I wasn't ready to date and I would only hurt the both of us. She told me something that made me fall for her right then. It's my choice whether I want to be with you or not. I guess that statement meant a lot more to me than it did her. She pretty much stomped on me and not going to give her a chance to do it again. I am acting like a woman right now. Crying and just really screwed up. I know that I shouldn't have let her in because we had only been talking a couple of weeks, that's why I tried to walk away. But when she told me that she wanted to still try that made me think that she liked me more than she did obviously.
Not all women do this to me. I have only dated 2 girls that I really liked like this. I screw things up with them.
It's not fair that she can make me wait for weeks when I think about her every day. I know she's not good for me so that's why I told her not to contact me again. I am so screwed up right now.
Chin up Drew, when the time is right, the right woman will come along and you will know it :)