My boyfriend of almost 4 years seems to always have an excuse as to why we can't have sex. He's either too tired, his back hurts, we're watching a movie, it's the middle of the day, etc. When we were first dating we had very intimate sex and I felt like he really found me attractive. For the past 2 years he hasn't been into sex. He seems tense and we don't kiss during it (we NEVER even have a makeout session). I seem to be doing ALL of the work. I've talked to him several times over the years and nothing has changed. He closes his eyes every single time we have sex and he always comments on my stomach. I have finally reached a point in my life where I am super confident about my body, but when it comes to being intimate, I feel like I'm one of the ugliest girls in the world to him. I'm new to this whole online support group thing because I have gotten to the point where I need someone to talk to.
His home health nurse came for first time yesterday and he had a ton of fluid on his legs up to his waist (ER found out his stomach is full of fluid too) He was put on lasix and another water pill on Tuesday but they were not working and the Nurse listened to him and he was in A Fib. They said since hes never had A Fib they think the fluid is causing it. And its non small cell lung cancer NOT...