I think saying he "doesn't remember" is a passive-aggressive way to tell you he will not talk about it. I bet he remembers, and he knows it was inappropriate. It is extremely frustrating for you, I'm sure.

You deserve to be treated better than that.

Like, how can you argue with "I don't remember" right? He doesn't remember, so, there you go. Nothing to be done.

Oh, bullshit.

It is absolutely maddening to have someone you love tell you "I don't remember." ARRRGHHH!! I agree with 11 Christmases. It's a shitty excuse. At best, the person is telling you "That information isn't important to me." How can he betray your trust by texting some girl, and then tell you "Huh? Golly, I don't remember that."

You know I am truly beginning to feel that like people like 11 Christmases
and Mr Cellophane like we should all be on an island you too BrooklynnMB
and island where people truly understand how to treat others in relationships,
It bothers you because you now have trust issues. It pisses me off- I remember
dismissing things like that The old giving people the benefit of the doubt -
and do you know what they end up doing with that "benefit"- screwing your
ass up. Let me tell you something- these little occurrences-it;s like you want to ignore them but its like Could it be the start of some crap.Why do people
have to just burden people with their crap I cant figure it out.I will never understand it.I am sorry that you have to- like you have to have these thoughts tormenting you- Girl get out now-because its either your down
for this playing games BS or you want someone worth your time- Choose

I don't remember......I forgot......I'll do it later....

All BS lines.

Once in a while, they're ok.

But is this a pattern? If so, NOT OK!! It is passive aggressive, and you can never communicate for real with a passive aggressive person. Huge waste of time and your precious energy.

Why do you choose to be with him? He seems to just constantly disappoint you. After a while, don’t you just think if he were really a good guy for you, he’d behave differently? I think focusing on his behavior is pointless. How about start focusing on yourself and figuring out that a happy life doesn’t usually include relationships with uncaring, thoughtless people

Wow she is a homewrecker. Get a gun and be an asshole or get a new man because he is weak.

This is the biggest red flag of where compulsive cheating starts. There is no way for you to fix him because its not your fault. Getting out early is the only way to avoid being hurt by the same actions in the future.

Im sorry your having to deal with this. So you went threw his phone? So what, it sounds like you had good reason to so. Im sorry he's denying remembering it.Might look up gas lighting. Trust me he's lying. Get help for yourself, men like this are beyond stubborn when it comes to admitting fault muchless change.He's just gonna drag you down. And look at your strength! Your on here looking for help, that speaks volumes about how amazing you really are!