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sfagrad
sfagrad
I am currently doing online dating. I am talking to a great guy right now and we have talked about meeting. He has a child, he is looking for a mother for his daughter. I said it was okay he had a child. Not real sure how this will play out. I am concerned he won't be available if I needed him or something like that. What do I do?
Canaan
Canaan
Sounds more like he wanted an easy out. Being able to just mention he has a kid would be an obvious message. He would have been better off listing his texting expectation.

OTM, passive texting is hitting the letters very gingerly. :)
rmb
rmb
Listing is texting expectations... haha! No kidding!
LuvMyTitans
LuvMyTitans
Ditto reply # 7!

Seriously. Is there a ' texting' manual I didn't know about?
Canaan. LOL@ you.

I agree with rmb's last reply too. He did you a favor!
LivingWater
LivingWater
You were indeed very lucky to see his weirdness very early on. There are a lot of disturbed people on dating sites! They're everywhere, of course, but somehow the most critical & narcissistic men seem to feel they can find the perfect woman on these sites.

I feel sorry for his little girl. Who knows how many women he will date and discard?
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