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Well, I slept 9 hours! Yeah... I was meant to be at my mom's 90 minutes ago. As you can see... Not hurrying over there. I need an hour to wake up, shower, dress, and just care enough to not go back to bed when it's this kind of fibro-achy day.
She's been asking me if I'm okay. A lot. Everyone is wondering what's next. Like, she tried calling me an abuser and nearly had me investigated by cops, soooo... I realllllly miss my pre-tumor mother. Mom was amazing. This person... So different. *sigh* They write books on dementia and stuff. Not so much "giant unusual meningioma survivor". First off, not many survive what Mom did. Second, most don't have it where she did. Third... Well, that's why most people don't survive. My mom, the medical journal article...?
And, yes, btw, we slept through the cats meowing their heads off. Take it as given we were tired!
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For cat-lovers with Netflix streaming, "Lion in th eliving room" is a cute special but it sin't 100% on the nose as far as I'm concerned in two regards. 1. Why we started keeping/allowing cats around and 2. Feral cat eating habits. I call no cat fussy who eats crickets to get his daily nutritional needs. ANyway, my cats loved watching it. I was hoping they'd take some hints on Good Behavior;-D
Meanwhile, cats are obligate carnivores, as we mostly all know --- meat only, critters only, and yes, that's why they hunt. It's literally programmed into them. You can train dogs out of it, but if you try to prevent cats from hunting, you're going to have miserable cats. Thus, we have playtime objects for cats. (A cat who gets lots of play will frequently abandon all notion of hunting your songbirds, btw, so... Feed the ferals, play with Fluffy, and the pretty birdies live. This is purely my experience, btw, on the birds, but I'm talking 40 years plus of observation and such, and seeing all kinds of cats in all knids of environments.)
Since dogs can eat a wider variety of foods, one must wonder: Do their close cousins? Yes, wolves do eat things like berries an dsuch, but not enough to count as "necessary" to a diet. Also, wolves rarely eat fish. They hunt land animals. Rodents? Yes. Mice to beavers, no problem for the wolf. Big hoofed critters like moose/elk/deer? Yes, when a pack can safely bring down such. (Lone wolf versus a lone deer usually ends up ab out an equal match, interestingly enough. Deer has wicked hooves and a lone wolf is usually not that stupid anyway... They go for rodents and bunnies.)
So, yes, your dog needs "different" foods, but not like the packaging says. Wolves have to compete in the wild with bobcats, lynx, pumas, and both black and brown bears (and grizzly bears where applicable) for food resources. Fish are prime for bears. You want to get in trouble with a bear, go after its fish. Nope.
Neitehr wolves nor dogs are adept at digesting *fiber*. That one's for you humans. Suckered? Probably. The fact is, if Fido's poop is not ideal to you, then it's b/c of the grains. Dogs, like wolves, can eat a bit of carbs --- but it's a tiny bit. The wolf is evolve dto live on protein, fat, and in feast-famine swings (ana dult wolf can eat about 20 pounds at a sitting after a long hungry stretch). Dogs are related enough to wolves to make their metabolisms similar (enough) that we can safely say: Carbs (grains) should be last on th elist. Filler, so to speak.
Some people thus claim you cannot have obese dogs b/c wolves don't get obese (in the wild or, of course, in controlled environs like zoos where their food is monitored and is stil basically a haunch of something hoofed and dead)... But yes, dogs and cats alike can get obese. Inactivity, wrong food, jus tlike humans.
Now, do dogs digest carbs? Yep. It's not gonna kill 'em. They prefer protein-rich, fat-rich diets with a smidge of carbs, and fiber only if vet-ordered for a health issue.
No, we can't eat like dogs, despite Dr. Atkins.
Cats, btw, can partially digest even feathers. That's why a cat kill can look so different from a dog kill, for thsoe of us who've encountered both. Feline kills don't stop to spit out feathers and such in the way. Canines tear in and tend to avoid such, if they're eating birds at all. (E.g., chickens, geese, such as we farm kids knew...) Birds, btw, will shred off the long feathers and down, if eatinh another bird. It's kinda weird to know this, btw, but there it is. Chickens and geese were part of my childhood. Thus, so were their downfalls.
A good toy for a cat? A quill. Natural only. No dye. Why? They love to crunch the spine of th efeather. It satisfies instinct and helps clean teeth, and if they eat it, who cares? (I keep natural feathers around for my cats for this reason. God bless the season of plumage molting where relevant...)
Dogs? Bone. Same basic idea, and happy days all around.
So --- just remember --- packaging is meant to sucker YOU! And even if they're eating imperfect kibbles --- which are affordable --- then pet cats and dogs alike will be fine as long as we keep them active and make sure they're getting their vitamins and all that stuff. Like us humans, really, only we can tolerate a train-load more carbs in our diets.
If you know any farmers or local butchers, they're pretty nice as a rule about keeping back bones for your dogs, btw, and also feathers from wild game birds for your cats. Or were/are in my experience. Odd, as I'm a vegetarian, but I get on well with the meat people who butcher/dress game and such for people. Possibly b/c I don't provide them with work?
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OK, off to force myself to face the day. It's Mom, sleet and ice, and... well, y'know.
BLessings, all!
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Another day, another ouchie?My bruised achilles tendon (don't ask) makes my foot numb. Wonky on meds, whacked it.Now, as to fibro:A lot of reports are going around some parts of social media that fibro (and dang near anything else) are caused by post-Covid, post-flu, post-vaccinations, post-pick-something.1. Your risk of death or serious complications beyond "ow, that shot hurt!" are typically...
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Years ago, I won a mirrored armoire from my job. It's in my bedroom but I rarely stand in front of it. Yesterday, I had to have a dexascan done so I had to change into a gown. There was a full length mirror in the changing room. I'm aware that I gained 5 to 7 pounds over the last year from cheating on Keto but I didn't know what it looked like. It was a reality check.
I'm exhausted..I did run yesterday, which was not ideal because I ran long on Thursday. Between Thursday and today, I've run 26 miles. My training plan called for it, but it normally would have been spread over 4 days with the day after my long run off. I took it slow after that but I need to be careful not to hurt myself. I was supposed to go to spin today but I didn't get a bike because several are broken. You have to sign up in advance and they're supposed to only fill as many slots as there are working bikes but they also fail to fix the broken ones for weeks at a time, which is frustrating, especially when it's busy during the winter. I ran my normal 3 miles and now I'm just walking on the treadmill watching HGTV. Better than nothing I guess. I need to get home soon and shower, do some cooking and walk Miki. It's supposed to start snowing this evening and then turn to sleet sometime tomorrow so I might see if bf wants to do something earlier this afternoon instead of this evening. Chances are we won't do anything tomorrow. I also got another eraser drawing done yesterday of a barn owl, bd loved it and wants to pay me for a drawing of a great horned owl, but he doesn't mind if I get more stuff done for the art show first. I wouldn't make him pay but he says he will anyway so I quoted him a lower price than I would either at a show or for a stranger. Anyway I need to get home soon, I hope everyone has a good weekend
Angela, *fistbump* The flare has me from weather here. Sucks. We'll get through!
Leo, yay sleep! Sounds like you were overdue. I hope things with your mom went as OK as they can. She's definitely a handful.
Silver only wanted to play with bouncy balls. Hershey likes toy mice, not really into much else. And Spike will go for anything that dangles in front of him lol. They have a basket of toys and every night Hershey would pick the biggest mouse out of the box and take it to her bed with her as if it's her teddy bear. I got her a pocket size stuffed bunny once and for a while that was her bed time stuffed animal.
Hershey's on canned food because of her IBD and colon cancer history. But changing her over was a heck of challenge because she's addicted to dry food which is like fast food for humans. Till this day she'll wonder off in search of other sources (humans) hoping they'll have dry food out for her. You should see her, she'll go right up to the farm workers and beg. SMH! I told my husband our future property needs to have a fence so I can keep her from getting sick. Spike's happy with anything you give him, he's not picky.
We had pounding rain most of yesterday and through the night. I woke up to find a puddle of water next to my night stand and drips from the roof, so I guess we have a small leak. My husband did help me do some cleaning yesterday which made me happy. But I did something dumb that made me sick and we did a shot of vodka (a neighbor who got hired at a vodka distillery gave us a bottle) that made my tummy upset. I don't know what I was thinking. I felt too sick to go out so I stayed home.
Vent warning. My mood is in the toilet today because my husband and I ended up butting heads over several things that happened last night. I told him he should google how to talk to your wife, maybe watch some youtube videos for tips if he has to. Seriously.
One of them being... he did some of "my" dishes, turned to me and griped about it and said he expects a thank you. After being stood up for a movie, it was the last straw and my anger spilled over. I'm always doing chores around here without his help or appreciation....he does one thing and suddenly he expects a band to play?
My neck won't stop bothering me and I heard Macy's may have a cervical pillow of some sort, so I may go into town and look for it. Also to CostCo and PetCo for a few other things. We'll see.
Back in a sec.
Miki you my friend are too busy for your own good. I hope you will take tomorrow and just rest. I love owls. I was standing outside a few weeks ago and one landed on a wire right in front of me. It was beautiful.
Angela I am glad you slept. I hope you will take care and rest this weekend. I use a cane when it is bad. I use the electric scooters in stores and anything else I need to do to be able to function. I am sorry you are struggling.
Blue I want to swat that hubby of yours. He has a serious case of only I matter that he needs to get rid of. I am sorry last night was ruined by his antics. A cervical pillow is a great idea. Do make sure you try it first to see how your neck responds. I have climbed up on beds to do so. I know people look at me like I am crazy but I don't care.
I was going to do a Costco run today but my pain level is so high I am sick to my stomach. It is slim pickings here at home but it will have to do till next weekend. My left foot feels broken on the outer side. I broke that bone twice in a 6 week period when I was younger just from walking. I have broken bones in my feet 24 times. The doctors don't seem to know why and don't seem interested in finding out why. I don't even go in to have it cast anymore. My hips and legs are feeling the fibro bad today too.
I hope you all have a good weekend.
Leo, you slept. That's an accomplishment!
Dealing with a parent with dementia is the hardest thing you'll ever do. I did not deal with it as long as you have, however, and my mother never called the cops on me. Although one time she fell and the ambulance people came and tried to frame my dog for the incident. She had enough awareness at that time to clear the dog.
Blue, your husband can be a piece of work. When he gets a cold, he probably expects you to cater to him as if he were dying. I've been there.
Autumn, I've had bad pain all over at the same time as my time has been upset, and this has been going on for weeks. Pain on the upper right side, too.
After trying to find a doctor that has a clue for two years (the medical community where I live is back in 1990 about my problems), I think I have found one. However, speaking of diets, she has put me on a strict one. I know she's right but it's torture.
I'm supposed to get a new puppy from a breeder that wants me to enter her in shows. She is 8 weeks old; you can't tell whether she'll be a show dog (bitch is the correct term) yet. But what's worrying me is how dragged out I am, all the time. A puppy takes energy. I have none. I've had this agreement for months, but I'm scared because I know I have no energy. My two oher dogs get their exercise by playing with each other and running around the backyard all day. And when I can take them to the dog park.
And, I'm working too much, which doesn't help.
I should be happy and excited that I'm finally getting the puppy I've wanted for so long, but I've been in so much pain that my anxiety is getting the better of me.
Well, that's my canine rant for the day.
Happy weekend.
WolfgangMinerva, I feel that. I was a wreck about getting cats, when I was already so strung out by life. Still, after a few months (and they weren't kittens), I settled down a bit. Just... do what you need fo ryou, okay?
OK, it's coming down here now, so I gotta go save cats from their stupid owners... Yes, people left pets out inthis sleet... ARGH.... Hugs to all, sorry I missed people!
We got snow accumulation Friday thru today and it is cold. Someone took care of my driveway today , I was asleep. I will have to call around and find out who did it , so I can thank and pay them.
I have been mostly hibernating from the world this month due to high pain and fatigue. I did go out and do a few errands Thursday and now I feel like am getting a cold.
A few weeks ago my Dad called and said he put his long time friend, that all of his children know, as his medical power of attorney and executor of his will.
I was a bit sad and angry re the medical POW in particular. I was a nurse for 20 years. Just to hear my Dad say your not well enough to do these things , was like for me yeah another thing I cant do for my loved ones. But, I have mostly made peace with it. I really dont want the responsibility. I know my 3 brothers would not help with anything, including the after death stuff , but would have their hands out for money when everything was done. So, I look it as he has done me a favor letting me off the hook so to speak.
Also,I dealt with my Mother and her parents things before and after death , mostly on my own and each time my health got worse and didnt recover. And it really pissed me off that the people that should of been helping me , the people that benefited financially , didnt help but were glad to take their share of the money after I did everything. So yeah venting.
I am hoping everyone is having a decent weekend and staying warm.
Autumn, that;s crazy about your feet...and baffling why doctors aren't curious to find out why. I hope the pain calms down.
Wolf, a new puppy sounds exciting but maybe right now isn't a good time. I hope you have it figured out soon, good luck!
Leo, why people think it's OK to leave pets out in bad weather, I don't get it!
Milily, sorry about your mom and how nobody cared to help. At least with your dad, the headache of dealing with his things will fall on someone else's shoulders.
Temps here are going to drop 30 degrees in the next 18 hours. The fibro ouch .... oh boy...Wish me luck!
Love to all!:-)
My test came back on Friday showing I have a high level of 2 strains of strep bacteria in my body. I'm also depleted of Vitamin C and B. I have mitochondrial disorders, and low HVA and VMA levels indicating depression, low production of dopamine, serotonin, and adrenaline. I was prescribed a different Thyroid yet again, a supplement for Adrenal support, Adrecor, Vitamin B, Liposomal Vitamin C,, CoQ10 with PQQ, Acetyl L Carnitine, Vitamin E, and a few others that I haven't gotten and may not. She recommended Sam-E but I've tried that before and didn't like it. It also showed I may have a genetic disease methylgutaconic aciduria. I haven't looked at this yet, but you need DNA testing to confirm it. Wow that's a lot wrong with me. I need to get ready for church, but I plan on checking back later so I can respond to everyone. Hugs and prayers for all.