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Well, I slept 9 hours! Yeah... I was meant to be at my mom's 90 minutes ago. As you can see... Not hurrying over there. I need an hour to wake up, shower, dress, and just care enough to not go back to bed when it's this kind of fibro-achy day.
She's been asking me if I'm okay. A lot. Everyone is wondering what's next. Like, she tried calling me an abuser and nearly had me investigated by cops, soooo... I realllllly miss my pre-tumor mother. Mom was amazing. This person... So different. *sigh* They write books on dementia and stuff. Not so much "giant unusual meningioma survivor". First off, not many survive what Mom did. Second, most don't have it where she did. Third... Well, that's why most people don't survive. My mom, the medical journal article...?
And, yes, btw, we slept through the cats meowing their heads off. Take it as given we were tired!
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For cat-lovers with Netflix streaming, "Lion in th eliving room" is a cute special but it sin't 100% on the nose as far as I'm concerned in two regards. 1. Why we started keeping/allowing cats around and 2. Feral cat eating habits. I call no cat fussy who eats crickets to get his daily nutritional needs. ANyway, my cats loved watching it. I was hoping they'd take some hints on Good Behavior;-D
Meanwhile, cats are obligate carnivores, as we mostly all know --- meat only, critters only, and yes, that's why they hunt. It's literally programmed into them. You can train dogs out of it, but if you try to prevent cats from hunting, you're going to have miserable cats. Thus, we have playtime objects for cats. (A cat who gets lots of play will frequently abandon all notion of hunting your songbirds, btw, so... Feed the ferals, play with Fluffy, and the pretty birdies live. This is purely my experience, btw, on the birds, but I'm talking 40 years plus of observation and such, and seeing all kinds of cats in all knids of environments.)
Since dogs can eat a wider variety of foods, one must wonder: Do their close cousins? Yes, wolves do eat things like berries an dsuch, but not enough to count as "necessary" to a diet. Also, wolves rarely eat fish. They hunt land animals. Rodents? Yes. Mice to beavers, no problem for the wolf. Big hoofed critters like moose/elk/deer? Yes, when a pack can safely bring down such. (Lone wolf versus a lone deer usually ends up ab out an equal match, interestingly enough. Deer has wicked hooves and a lone wolf is usually not that stupid anyway... They go for rodents and bunnies.)
So, yes, your dog needs "different" foods, but not like the packaging says. Wolves have to compete in the wild with bobcats, lynx, pumas, and both black and brown bears (and grizzly bears where applicable) for food resources. Fish are prime for bears. You want to get in trouble with a bear, go after its fish. Nope.
Neitehr wolves nor dogs are adept at digesting *fiber*. That one's for you humans. Suckered? Probably. The fact is, if Fido's poop is not ideal to you, then it's b/c of the grains. Dogs, like wolves, can eat a bit of carbs --- but it's a tiny bit. The wolf is evolve dto live on protein, fat, and in feast-famine swings (ana dult wolf can eat about 20 pounds at a sitting after a long hungry stretch). Dogs are related enough to wolves to make their metabolisms similar (enough) that we can safely say: Carbs (grains) should be last on th elist. Filler, so to speak.
Some people thus claim you cannot have obese dogs b/c wolves don't get obese (in the wild or, of course, in controlled environs like zoos where their food is monitored and is stil basically a haunch of something hoofed and dead)... But yes, dogs and cats alike can get obese. Inactivity, wrong food, jus tlike humans.
Now, do dogs digest carbs? Yep. It's not gonna kill 'em. They prefer protein-rich, fat-rich diets with a smidge of carbs, and fiber only if vet-ordered for a health issue.
No, we can't eat like dogs, despite Dr. Atkins.
Cats, btw, can partially digest even feathers. That's why a cat kill can look so different from a dog kill, for thsoe of us who've encountered both. Feline kills don't stop to spit out feathers and such in the way. Canines tear in and tend to avoid such, if they're eating birds at all. (E.g., chickens, geese, such as we farm kids knew...) Birds, btw, will shred off the long feathers and down, if eatinh another bird. It's kinda weird to know this, btw, but there it is. Chickens and geese were part of my childhood. Thus, so were their downfalls.
A good toy for a cat? A quill. Natural only. No dye. Why? They love to crunch the spine of th efeather. It satisfies instinct and helps clean teeth, and if they eat it, who cares? (I keep natural feathers around for my cats for this reason. God bless the season of plumage molting where relevant...)
Dogs? Bone. Same basic idea, and happy days all around.
So --- just remember --- packaging is meant to sucker YOU! And even if they're eating imperfect kibbles --- which are affordable --- then pet cats and dogs alike will be fine as long as we keep them active and make sure they're getting their vitamins and all that stuff. Like us humans, really, only we can tolerate a train-load more carbs in our diets.
If you know any farmers or local butchers, they're pretty nice as a rule about keeping back bones for your dogs, btw, and also feathers from wild game birds for your cats. Or were/are in my experience. Odd, as I'm a vegetarian, but I get on well with the meat people who butcher/dress game and such for people. Possibly b/c I don't provide them with work?
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OK, off to force myself to face the day. It's Mom, sleet and ice, and... well, y'know.
BLessings, all!
Blue I am glad your hubby apologized. Yes too much drinking can make a person ugly to others. I hope he will take a serious look at how drinking effects how he treats you. I am glad he helped you with the running too.
Angela I am glad that you are staying home and taking care of yourself. So many of you are in that freeze zone right now. Your mom really does try to take care of you. Hugs
I stayed down yesterday as my pain level was a roaring lion. Today I am not feeling the pulling in my muscles near as much. It is raining here and the front will pass sometime tonight. That gives me hope that tomorrow will be better yet.
Happy Sunday!
Wolf, so we kinda let a special needs puppy fall into our laps. And he's a lot of work. But I'm noticing something....I'm building more endurance. I know the decision you are facing is a big one, know going into it, the puppy will make you better in the long run. I haven't been this active in years. LOL.
Leo, I'm so sorry your mom is struggling so much...well, actually your struggling, I wonder if your mom is aware of who she has become. It's a topic my siblings and I discuss...we almost at times don't recognize my mom. She no longer can do the things she did before and her temperament has changed a lot. It makes dealing with some of the "mom" stuff not so fun. Full of anger at times. Which is not who she was before. I almost wonder if she might have had some mini strokes. She struggles with swallowing certain foods and pills. So she chooses to crush them vs discuss it with the doc. I thin she's afraid of the answers.
Blue, I'm sorry your hubby is a big old butt! Seriously? A marriage is not about the "Me vs You" thing. If it is to him, then he's not in a marriage. I'm sorry he fails to see that. Being married and owning a home means, doing it all. If you only put in your 50%, expect just half a marriage. If you want the whole thing, you gotta put 100% or more into it. (I'm sorry if I'm preaching to the choir here).
And the puddles you are dealing with too! As for the shots of vodka....I can't even handle small amount of any booze anymore. My tummy likes to hault everything.
Twins. Wow, that is a lot going on there. But I'm optimistic as the treatments are supplements. I have taken L-Carnitine in the past along with a handful of some of the other stuff too. It makes sense that you feel as poorly as you do with such low functioning numbers.
Milily, I'm so sorry your dad is facing those things, making those decisions. But I'm glad he kept you out of it also. It's a hard thing to go through...the stress, management, the BS of family and so on. Now that you know what "isn't" required of you, you can just enjoy all the moments you do have with your dad now. In a lot of ways that too is another blessing.
Autumn, wow, that foot sounds painful. I'm sorry you are dealing with that. Our son didn't know he had shattered his foot into 16 fragments one summer. He only complained of his shoe not fitting right. (I'm guessing it was swollen). But he doesn't register pain very well. Anyways, the orthopedic we saw (after he had broken his baby toe later that summer), shared that sometimes, not casting is better for your body. And our kiddo was living proof of that.
Do you have any grocery delivery places in your area? We have one called Instacart here (I think they are nationwide) and they will deliver Costco or Sam's club for us.
Angela, glad that your depression isn't so bad today and I hope your legs are doing better too,
Miki, Glad you got your running and stuff done before the storms hit. Hoping you're enjoying your Sunday too.
It's another flip flop day here. -45 in some areas of MN. This stupid cold weather is messing with my asthma (Cold weather, exercise, things like dust too will induce it).
And I'm taking a day of rest today. I've got a 25lb pork belly of a black lab to cuddle with and we mean business today. Everything else will get done when it gets done. (good thing I did laundry yesterday, we all have underware, LOL).
Hope everyone has a good Sunday today.
I haven’t been reading, so I need to catch up.
Take care.