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FIRST i wanna say THANK YOU to all of you and everyone that has been hoping and praying for us!!! it means SO MUCH to me, you have no idea.....
we see the pain psychologist monday (the 5th, which is also my bday), in which i already called him and told about his suicide threats. and i think his therapist will be talkin to our pain psychologist, about it too.
he still argues with me every evening about the stupidest shit and he still gets so upset he starts giving me the "warnings" again (that he's climbing that latter to suicide threats again). his therapist gave him this "strategy" to use when he gets that "feeling" again, that, he has to warn me.
every evening it escalates. and then he backs down and starts telling me that he wants us to work. that he will do anything to make us work. his moods are like a f%ckin roller coaster!!
i can't wait to see the couples counselor on the 19th. this shit is driving me so fuckin crazy.... how the hell do you handle suicide threats all the time???? i wanna pull my hair out, i told him last night. also that he's driving me absolutely crazy! i told him all of it yesterday... i told him to get a grip!
i understand he's on unemployment, can't get work, is about to start college again, is in pain, is on a new med, has PTSD, yada yada.....
--BUT-- i've also been thru hell with this fuckin cymbalta tearin my GI tract up!! and now getting off the stuff (weaning off) is giving me the craziest withdrawal symptoms!!!! and yes, i'm IN PAIN TOO!! good God....
he said he gets it and will try to get along with me for now.... yeah right! wait till his mood switches again. then he chews my head off for no freakin reason!!! his doc put him on valium to try and sedate him more..... we'll see. he's napping for now....
the drama is just nuts... it's not helping my symptoms. thanks for praying for me and please keep it up! i need you all more than ever right now....
Peace and God bless....
we see the pain psychologist monday (the 5th, which is also my bday), in which i already called him and told about his suicide threats. and i think his therapist will be talkin to our pain psychologist, about it too.
he still argues with me every evening about the stupidest shit and he still gets so upset he starts giving me the "warnings" again (that he's climbing that latter to suicide threats again). his therapist gave him this "strategy" to use when he gets that "feeling" again, that, he has to warn me.
every evening it escalates. and then he backs down and starts telling me that he wants us to work. that he will do anything to make us work. his moods are like a f%ckin roller coaster!!
i can't wait to see the couples counselor on the 19th. this shit is driving me so fuckin crazy.... how the hell do you handle suicide threats all the time???? i wanna pull my hair out, i told him last night. also that he's driving me absolutely crazy! i told him all of it yesterday... i told him to get a grip!
i understand he's on unemployment, can't get work, is about to start college again, is in pain, is on a new med, has PTSD, yada yada.....
--BUT-- i've also been thru hell with this fuckin cymbalta tearin my GI tract up!! and now getting off the stuff (weaning off) is giving me the craziest withdrawal symptoms!!!! and yes, i'm IN PAIN TOO!! good God....
he said he gets it and will try to get along with me for now.... yeah right! wait till his mood switches again. then he chews my head off for no freakin reason!!! his doc put him on valium to try and sedate him more..... we'll see. he's napping for now....
the drama is just nuts... it's not helping my symptoms. thanks for praying for me and please keep it up! i need you all more than ever right now....
Peace and God bless....
You're not married. I want to say to you... leave him... things, life etc don't get better, as you get older life gets more complicated, stresses usually increase. I see you don't want children, but unless there is a permanent reason why you can't (by choice or not) kids can come along, we get mortgages blah blah. You guys are supposed to be having fun at your age. Not dealing with a suicidal boyfriend.
All I can really say to you is .... Is he really the one? Your answer will determine your actions.
Coralie XxX
admit him!!! they will help him. after a couple weeks or months of treatment he will see his error, then u can decide if u want to stay with him.
i pray u the best...
devon
As his mate, you're the one who will help him out of his mess. It sounds like you need some help doing that. Getting him to counseling is important and if he won't go, you'll need more help. I'm glad to hear you plan to call 911.
It sounds like you know what to do, just remember to care for yourself. Don't be in his abusive pathway if that's the way he chooses to behave. Leaving his presence is an excellent suggestion.
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anytime there is a life or death threat= its serious no laughing matter!
I'm very good w/my inteution now!
If my hair stands up from just a certain look or any type of sarcastic comment =i'm gone!
like the new song from ROBERT PLANT & Alician Croustch "GONE,GONE,GONE BABY GONE"!
I know you love him!
We all loved our guys too! but didn't love ourself enough to see the danger! ALMOST TOO LATE!
& ofcoarse they blamed it on my "FIBRO" & i thought it was me! Because i knew nothing but verbal abuse all my life!
But now is different, i won't even let one innocedent go.. might be alone the rest of my life, but atleast alive to travel the world!& maybe still find my soulmate for one last kiss!
I hope everything works out & you both get your counsleing...
other then you better start thinking about yourself first!
& let him take care of hisself! w/out tearing you down w/him!
YOU ARE OUR "HERO"="SHERO" THAT STOOD UP FOR "US" WOMEN, SO WE ARE ONLY TELLING YOU THESE THINGS OUT OF LOVE!
healing prayers & angels to guide & watch you both!
oxo
paula
All abusers regardless of illness =have a controlling personilty!
They use to be so great for about 3-5 days & then it would start,just a hair out of place or again if i didn't agree w/ his point of view! he would burst! i was walking on egg shells=
funny thing is i never let either of my abusers near my children! they had seperate house! & i never let anyone stay over night! or spend much time w/ girls!
My children did see one attack & that was one too many= he was gone, when i looked into their eyes & seen the fear! i got help right away! & he was never back in my life again!
or anyone else either= i kinda i'm a real "BITCH" now =cause i won't put up w/any type of abuse= if you can't treat me w/ respect your not in my life! that also include women friends too!
You should try & find a womens abuse group!
Ours in Michigan is called "FIRST STEP"
again healing prayers & angels To watch &guide you & yours!
oxo
paula
we argue everyday about the stupidest shit.
he said he's gonna be changing himself for the better. he will be finding his true identity (whatever that means). he asked me if i will stand by him during this bcuz it will get rougher before it gets better. i told him i don't know. as long as he blames me for stupid shit, then NO. and if he blames me for his problems then HELL NO. but if he's gonna treat me with respect and NOT blame me, then YES. but we'll see. otherwise, i'll pitch in for a plane ticket for him to go back to Texas. cuz i got my own problems and i don't need his unnecessary bullshit added.
i told him i love him with all my heart and we've had some really really good days in the past. but right now, he has shaken my faith in him. i told him that if he can't figure his shit out and get things right, then i'd rather not be with him. he told me he's doing therapy and whatever she tells him to do. i guess i'll wait to talk to her my self PLUS see OUR counselor before i make my decision.
thanks again for everyone's advice. i'm glad i have you all! y'all mean a lot to me. and thanks for the prayers and support as well. those are very needed. i'm also grateful for all your honesty here. it helps me feel so not alone. you all are great!