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My aunt is dying

AngelaJo
AngelaJo

She is almost 97 years old. She was rushed to the ER from the nursing home yesterday in terrible pain. She is back at the nursing home and they said all they can do now is give her morphine to keep her comfortable because her bodys shutting down. Most of my childhood memories involve her :( We spent every school break and a lot of the summer vacations with her. Even in high school i still went and in college at times. She is 4 hours away :(. This is soo hard

BlueSky
BlueSky
Wow, 97 is a long life! I'm sorry she is leaving you :(
Hugs and prayers for comforting angels.....
PainedOne
PainedOne
So sorry to hear that, Angela. Prayers for you, your aunt, and your family.
AngelaJo
AngelaJo
Thank you both, praying they can keep her pain eased up :(
Fantod
Fantod
I am sorry to hear this sad news. Ninety seven is quite a long life! I’m sure that the nursing home will do everything that they can to keep her comfortable. Hugs!
AutumnSong
AutumnSong
Gentle hugs and prayers for your aunt, you and your family.
MrsOtto
MrsOtto
DEAR LORD,
Please bless Angela and her aunt. What a wonderful family bond, Angela, I know you both will cherish your times together and even though this time is very difficult, God sees all your tears and im sending you big hugs!
Miki26
Miki26
I'm so sorry you're going through this, and I hope they can keep her comfortable. It must be harder for you with the 4 hour distance...is there a family member or staff member at the nursing home who could let you talk to her on the phone? Even if she can't speak she might have some awareness and be able to hear you. Something to consider if you haven't already, it might help you to tell her how much she means to you and how many happy memories you have of her. Sending lots of hugs and your family is in my thoughts
Cobalt
Cobalt
I'm so sorry. This is going to be hard for you, even though you know it's coming.

It may feel odd to pay attention to yourself at this time, but self-care is probably what you will need most. When she does pass it will stress you and your family a lot. I hope your family and friends step up and offer their support.
AngelaJo
AngelaJo
Thank you all for your support, means so much to me! I could not get thru all i have without the support i get here.
3littlebears
3littlebears
gentle hugs angela. I'm sorry to hear you are going through this. I hope family gathers with you for much needed support for each other. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Cielo77
Cielo77
Hi angelajo. hugs of comfort to you and family. I'm sorry for this difficult time. I am glad that you reached out to us here on this site. I am glad that you share a life time of memories with your Aunt. Focus on the good moments. She has been a big part of your life. So thank her for the time you shared. Be positive when you are with her. I understand it is easier said than done. I will keep you in my prayers. Sending peace and comfort. Hugs to all.
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