Family Issues Support Group
Family issues is a huge range that go from minor conflict to major misbehaviour and even abuse on the part of individual members of the family occur. Whether you feel you are in a dysfunctional family or you're dealing with a very specific issue, this is the place to talk about it and find others who might be going through the same thing.
I don't want to bring him to a point where he is well, I leave, and then his health deteriorates again.
Until I have to ask my mother to help me watch my kids for the summer, God I need prayers.
I don't speak of my past abusive situation b/c it is very unpleasant to talk about.
By the way, I was not calling your situation BS or that YOU are doing the BS. I meat that you having to put up with HIS BS is well, BS! : ) I hope you didn't think I was calling YOU full of BS!
Anyway, I was thinking of you today when I was... you guess it... watching my Dr Phil at the gym today.
I'll post a link to it in a bit.
Pay special attention to the second half. HAVE A PLAN when you leave. The first two to three weeks are the most dangerous.
If you leave NOW, you can dodge that time since he'll still be recuperating and won't have the energy to go after you.
Trust me, him getting hurt is your chance!
Dr Phil says abuse is always a drop dead no deal reason you dont' put up with it. And he is right. Everyone is right, I just have a hard time letting go, but eventually I think it will happen.