Oh my! That is going to far! I wouldn't think that he could post things about you and your children. Especially children since they are minors. Hopefully someone else on here has a better idea or experience on what you can do in a situation like this.

Will keep you in my thoughts and hope that this doesn't keep going on.

This disclaimer is posted on the Maryland Sex Offender Registry.

"The information presented on this Web site should not be used in any manner to injure, harass, or commit a criminal act against any individual named in the registry, or residing or working at the reported address. Any such action could subject you to criminal prosecution."

Make copies of everything this person has posted and make a police report, immediately!!

I feel your fear and your angst. I would feel the same since I would consider posting my name and my children's names on Facebook and anywhere else as HARASSMENT. I would be furious as well as fearful!!

In the midst of the aftermath I would also encourage you to do what you can to find inner quiet amidst the complex and conflicted feelings.

If I can may I ask a few questions .... Do you feel safe now? If not where can you go so you feel safe? What else can you do to quiet your mind and protect yourself and your family right now? When we are centered we are better able to listen to our own inner guidance, and not react out of a place of retaliation, which is where the father of the victim is coming from right now. Be calm and know his anger at some point will pass.

In the meantime, have you talked to an attorney or to the national or your local RSOL organization for suggestions?

Is there any ACTION you feel we could take to assist? Does the larger collective of RSOL organizations feel we should take ACTiON at this time to help protect you and your family from any further harm?

I am open to writing letters and doing what ever I can in addition to holding your in prayers of protection and safety to get this resolved as quickly as possible!

WorriedSick ... can and you WILL get through this !!!

Since your husband is now only on probation and not serving a prison term, if my memory serves me correctly ... I have a feeling the Father of the victim is acting out of ANGER and FEAR himself.

This is where more psychological support is needed for all families involved in these very emotionally charged cases! I have such a difficult time with all these legalities when the truth is PEOPLE on Registries and who have committed a sexual offense NEED HELP and support from their communities. NOT SHAME!

His anger and fear does not mean he needs to harass you or your family though, EVER !!! He too needs to process his FEELINGS. People who have been sexually abused HEAL. They don't have to be victims. And the courts themselves need to give those who have committed a sexual offense the same respect as anyone else who is serving their sentence, via in prison or on probation. The passing of laws that are more strict to deter sexual offenses does NOT help ANYONE! The victims families or perpetrators! We need just laws that help people HEAL. Unjust laws create more HARM, and do not resolve the core issues that led to the abuse in the first place, they just create more abuse.

What is happening to you makes me so MAD !!! Because it is all STUPID AND PREVENTABLE !!!!

Please keep us informed ...

I am now concerned since he placed this on my office facebook page that I could be fired from my job as well. It is absolutely horrible. I am concerned for my 9 and 4 yr old daughters who's names have now been posted and associated with my husbands registry all over the internet. But our story was never in the media. All my husband did was have a ONE TIME conversation with a 14yr old girl via the Facebook Chat! He is charged with one count of Sexual Solicitation of a Minor.

He never touched her nor made a plan to meet her.

I am scared that this father since he is showing signs of being vindictive that he may hurt us.

I would consider this harassment. It clearly states that the registry listing is not to be use to harass. I consider it harassment. I am going to try to get a "Peace Order" with the police department but I doubt that I will get it.

Nothing ever works in our favor. Only thing we lucked out is no jail time. But now I feel like I am in a jail in my own home!

That may be why the guy is so outraged and didn't feel able to process, because he is in fear for his child and might have assumed there would be jail time.

I think you will have no trouble getting a Peace Order. The law seems cut and dry to me. Contact an attorney if they wont give you one.

Facebook needs to be set to Friends Only and these issues wouldn't happen. He is playing papa bear the easiestbway he knowa how.

I suggest going to talk to the people at your job about getting him blocked and having his graffitti removed.

We are here for you.

I know it feels that way Worried ... but I must remind you that the jail that you are in right now is in your MIND. Do what you need to do to protect yourself and let us know how we can help you. This is just another opportunity to get to know yourself better and HEAL YOURSELF!

Here is a good prevention about breath as an ally:

http://www.soundstrue.com/weeklywisdom/?agmepisode=4827&wwepisode=4821&pepisode=4809&ppepisode=1032&utm_source=soundstrue&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=weeklywisdom-111118

If you have trouble downloading it let me know ...

He begins with a presentation about breath and how breathing is a metaphor for life. It IS !!!! And even your kids can learn it !!!

I studied with a woman for over 15 years who taught about natural breathing and how to calm myself due to my own sexual abuse issues. You and your family can heal through this!

Right now you are in high sympathetic alert, breathing - long slow exhales can help you calm yourself.
Listen to him and you will learn more ....

My teacher, Charlotte Selver, studied with a woman named Elsa Gindler. She worked with people in Germany in the 20's and 30's, many of who she helped hide from the Nazi's in Germany ...

It is powerful work to listen to your breath and to feel the support that is with you always ... UNDER YOU and IN YOU, as you learn to work with our feelings past and present, so you won't need to feel so much worry about the present or the future ... notice if you can quiet your mind and bring more spaciousness WITH the breath to any tightness you may feel in yourself, not needing to change it, but being present with it.
I would be happy to share some of this with you on the phone if it might help you.

My thoughts are with you ...

Who is the admin to your office fb page? Contact them if is not you and explain the harassment.

Do you know how to delete posts from a fb page? You can!! Just click to the right of the post that says, "friends" and a box should come up that gives you options ... one of the the bottom ones says DELETE.

See if you can get rid of the post if you don't want others to see it.

There is also a short intro via an audiotape from a Catholic Priest, Father Richard Rohr, called CONSTANT PRESENCE WITH WAHT IS, who talks of embracing the dark-sides of our psyche as Saint Frances did.

Sensory Awareness and breathing does exactly that, it brings us to Present Moment Awareness - PRESENCE. Had I not had ways to quiet my mind and come into the present moment, my own presence, in this experience of Collective Shadow that each of us in America has been invited to embrace in the injustices of our system of dealing of those even accused of sexual offenses I honestly do not think I could or even would have survived this journey

Life Wounds us all, It is how we embrace the darkness, in compassion and kindness, and remember our WHOLENESS and the wholeness of those we love that can lead to healing.

I have found this journey to be a deeply spiritual one, one that embraces all part of myself and those who are victims. Sadly enough to say we ALL become victims or perpetrators when WHOLENESS is not embraced. Healing is INCLUSIVE, not exclusive.

There are other clips as you scroll down that some of you might enjoy as well.

You need to call the State Police association and file a complaint. This is against the LAW! Meagan's law specifically states that the registry is NOT to be used for vigilantism or harassment!
If you don't stop it NOW, then it will continue! He needs to know that what he is doing is against the law just as much as any other law HE thinks was broken.

I'm so sorry-- this is the kind of scary and painful thing I fear most. I think a lot of do. If I were you, I'd inform the attorney who represented your husband, as well as the police. That person should be charged with harassment, at least.

DO WHAT CHEROKEE SUGGESTED!
MAKE COPIES, AND FILE A POLICE REPORT! NOW!
WHAT HE HAS DONE IS AGAINST THE LAW!

Worried, if for no one else, do this for your kids. So many of our kids are being punished for a parent being an RSO. There are huge campaigns in schools to stop bullying and harassment, yet our families are major targets. You have a clear cut case of harassment and vigilantism, which could easily escalate to violence against your family, PLEASE do what you have to do to protect yourselves! I am speaking from experience and DO NOT want this to happen to your family.