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And you would think it would die out, but their online website and youtube videos are growing in the thousands (I check every now and then). I don't want to be harassed too, and it kills me to see my uncle sad and alone from this.
They filmed his arrested, his booking, and they even have the video of him being interviewed by the police!!! They keep making fun that he was crying when it happened. Well who wouldn't be?! They ruined his life and will never make it in music now.
Yea they are really obsessed. The guy who wrote the book comes out with about an hour a video a day talking about my uncle. I don't get it. How many times can they make fun of him? And how do they get away using my uncle's pix like this? The person's thumbnail is from the pix of my uncle they have online.
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWNaNE9QbRoJed1YXNsivOQ/videos
It might be his fault for the crime he committed but that does not give another the right to harass him continuously for several years. And if at any point a job was lost because of the media attention that this guy is stoking like a fire then it could be considered harassment. If this person is also hanging out, outside his residence, there could be stalking and loitering.
I know we all hate dealing with police, but when you go to file a complaint, they have to take regardless if they agree with it or not. They can also try to ignore it too, but if there are enough of them, they can't be ignored. Is your uncle the only person this guy is harassing or are there others?
Now the question is, are you feeling harassed? Because it sounds like they have you in their sights too. It sounds like you are not a convicted felon, nor are you a sex offender, yet they are harassing you too. This might be grounds for you to file something against them for not gaining your permission before putting you in their book. Again, speaking to an attorney about it would be best as it is a pretty thin line of thought legally.
There are some really nice things about small towns and there are some not so nice things about small towns... They tend to forgive better if they are a close knit community with level heads on their shoulders. So they may not see you any differently as there are many families that have closet offenders in their histories, it just isn't as fantastically advertised as it is today. Remember until the 1980's most sexually oriented crimes were not reported or were 'taken care of' within the family in a manner of speaking.
The one thing I noticed is that the smaller the group the more accepting people are to those that have committed sex crimes. They may want to know the age of the victim or something like that. Which it seems that if the 'victim' is over the age of 15, the attitude of "so what?" is what I have seen and heard about most often. I think it is because people, all us regular joes remember the age of 15, the coursing hormones, the uncontrollable urges, and poor judgement we all had back then. I always wonder about those that show such outrage when some 15yr old and some 19 yr old have sex and think that the 19 yr old is some kind of middle aged predator. It makes me wonder what their high school career was like, what kinds of worldly learning experiences did they face? Did they face any at all? Are they this naive in the other facets of their life? Maybe I faced to many, because I wonder if most people face enough of them to make them well rounded human beings. For their actions, responses and reactions do not imply that they have had enough world experiences to be able to pass judgement on anyone but themselves.