I have had 4 lap surgeries in less than a year. Ever time they found either a ovarian cyst/scar tissue or adhesions or Endometriosis. EVERY SINGLE TIME. My doctor that I have now performed 2 of the surgeries and one of them was with the best endo doctor in the state. I have been in pain for almost 2 yrs now and I am ready for change! I am tired of being overweight and lazy-which is caused from stress and the level 10 pain that I am in everyday. My husband and I DO NOT WANT TO HAVE KIDS, no matter what anyone has said we have already decided and that is final. So why won't the doctor give me a hysterectomy? I have explained to him a million times that if he doesn't do the procedure no matter what my husband is going to get a vasectomy. So what is the hold up? Is it because he is afraid he might make the wrong decison? Even though we know exactly where the pain is coming from. Or is it because my husband and I are so young( Me 21 and him 27)? I am going to get a second opinion just for my doctor... it is to make him feel more comfortable I guess. But I know in my heart that this is the right decsion. Does anyone have any advice about maybe asking the right questions or getting it through to the doctor. or does anyone know of any great doctors in Arizona...Phoenix or Tucson? Please I need some advice I am at the end of my rope. You can read my page to give you a little bit more knowledge about what I have been through and what is going on right now. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE ADVICE!!!
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