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would u rather....

missyS
missyS
alright here is a game where u voice ur opinion when presented with 2 choices....u choose which choice ud rather do....then present the next person with a different situation/2 choices

ill present the first dilemma

would u rather be skinny and die tmorrow or be overweight and live to be 120?
Juice
Juice
Oh shit, missy, you ask tough questions. The way I feel tonight, skinny.

dilemma: would you rather confront your family about a long-hidden secret to heal yourself, or let things lie and suffer in silence?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Hey Im New here and that is a hard question but id say skinny
deleted_user
deleted_user
I think id rather let things lie and suffer
missyS
missyS
would u rather get a really bad sunburn or hypothermia?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Good game-I don't want any of those. Sorry .Probably I'd take the sunburn.

Juice, I know it's easier said than done, but if you're ready, I'd confront the family. Our secrets keep us sick
deleted_user
deleted_user
How about some reasoned thinking , so lets look at the implications a bit further, dying from being skinny is a long painful process, and living to 120 I would think is a long painful process to, so how about, living a healthy life and enjoying what time we have here. Can we have some more please
deleted_user
deleted_user
juice.. confront the fam.. they love you and would rather help then know that you have suffered for so long
would you rather ... go to school for 15 years to get an awesome paying job or make half that and work now?
deleted_user
deleted_user
work now.
would you rather be happy and obese
or sad and skinny?
CityandColour
CityandColour
i'd have to say sad and skinny
deleted_user
deleted_user
confront, they're your family and maybe they can heal along with you...

atm, sad and skinny...i'm already sad so not much difference...

ok new Q.. would you rather have a 100k+ salary and never see your friends/family or be homeless but surrounded by those you love?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Oh easy one, rather be homeless in a heartbeat.
"would you rather let people think you're an idiot, or open your mouth and remove all doubt"
deleted_user
deleted_user
open my mouth and remove all doubt

Would you rather be alone and isolate, being able to do whatever, or be with loved ones who support you constantly?
deleted_user
deleted_user
let them know i'm an idiot!?! haha...yah i'd totally let them know i'm an idiot by opening my mouth no guessing here!

would you rather drown or burn to death?
deleted_user
deleted_user
oh burn to death. Save the family money on cremation costs. Would you rather be right or happy?
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'd choose the family/friends over the money because money is fleeting and your family can't be replaced.

Would you marry for money or for love?