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Weekly Weigh-In (July 8-14) Fun Goals!

How The Tone It Up Girls Make Fitness More Fun
If there's one thing Katrina Scott and Karena Dawn—the powerhouse duo behind Tone It Up—know, it's how to make fitness fun. If you're not familiar, their peppy workout videos, made-to-be-Instagrammed recipes, and massive following of TIU Girls on social media (1.2 million followers on Instagram alone) make kettlebells and kale look more exciting than sleeping in and hitting up weekend brunch. (But that doesn't mean you should sacrifice a good brunch.)
That's because, at the end of the day, these two ladies realized that life is way too short to spend so much time dreading diet and exercise. After all, they're integral parts of a daily routine. Plus, if you're having a good time achieving your health goals, you're more likely to stick to them, they say.
On top of that, research has shown that how you think about your workouts has ripple effects. A 2015 study published in Marketing Letters found that when participants perceived physical activity as fun—for example, signing up for a 5K with your bestie vs. running as part of your regular fitness routine—they were actually less likely to snack throughout the day and consumed less dessert. Why? Researchers theorize that having fun with fitness triggers the reward switch in your brain. That feeling of reward keeps you from derailing later because rather than telling yourself you're going to get a treat later, the workout becomes the treat.
So, with the power of fun fitness in mind, we asked K&K how to switch things up to make our fitness goals more enticing. Here's what they said needs to change in your routine.
Get a friend in on the action.
Old Goal: Cancel happy hour with your work wife to avoid a #healthgoals saboteur.
New Goal: Invite her to be your workout buddy.
Let's be real, no one wants to skip happy hour to go slog away at the gym. That's why K&K are all about buddying up with someone to form healthier habits together. "For us, the number one thing is getting a girlfriend involved," says Dawn. "Having an accountability partner really does make it more fun and motivating."
That means instead of setting goals to run stairs solo or get yourself to an a.m. spin class, bring a friend in on the action to make you more likely to stick to your committments. "It's knowing that you're not alone in this journey—you can turn and look at someone after class or after a workout and be like, 'That was awesome,' or you can say, 'Please help me,'" says Dawn. (Not sure how to make the ask? Here are 7 ways to find a fitness buddy.)
Make your sweat sessions social events.
Old Goal: Go for a run before heading to brunch.
New Goal: Recruit your brunch crew to join your morning miles.
Obviously, social time is a huge part of TIU's fitness lifestyle. "We got used to a social fitness, where you get together with your girlfriends and not only are you together spending time but you also have those accountability partners," Dawn says. Kick your buddy system up a notch by making a workout a full-blown social event with your whole crew.
There are two major advantages to setting social goals. First, you have a whole support system to help you struggle through a tough workout, says Scott—sharing eye contact and a giggle makes your boot camp instructor seem slightly less intimidating. And secondly, setting social goals is also really convenient. On a busy week, you won't have to choose between a catch up and getting your cardio.
Embrace the power of the playlist.
Old Goal: Muscle through that super boring silent yoga class, even though you hate listening to the sound of your breathing.
New Goal: Check out a hip-hop yoga class.
Good jams can turn a traditionally boring workout into a party, and according to TIU doctrine, any workout can be enhanced with a playlist that speaks to you. "We always have to have a fun playlist for working out," says Dawn. "Sometimes we'll listen to old school jazz, sometimes we'll listen to the latest and greatest dance music, or sometimes just Beyoncé on Pandora. Whatever mood we're in, we totally jam out."
Use the power of a good playlist to your advantage when setting your fitness goals. If you're someone who's really moved by music, plug into classes known for their DJ skills. And when you workout on your own, don't leave home without your headphones—that 6-mile run will fly by with Queen Bey giving you energy. (Need inspo? Here are 100 of the best workout songs in the world.)
Plan ahead and mix things up.
Old Goal: Try to make it to three workout classes a week, depending on your work schedule.
New Goal: Book three classes before the week starts and make your schedule work.
Looking forward to your workouts is a huge part of making fitness more fun, according to K&K. So as you start setting your fitness goals for the week, "find something you love and will look forward to," says Dawn.
To keep things interesting and engaging, they advise always scheduling your workouts ahead of time and mixing it up so you go into the week with fun workout plans already on the books. "We'll text each other and be like, 'What do you feel like this week?" Dawn said of her and Scott's weekly routine. "We always want to mix it up and get outside."
Set mini goals instead of massive ones.
Old Goal: Go from being a cardio-hater to running a half-marathon before 2018.
New Goal: Find a good training plan and commit to safely increasing your mileage.
While setting ambitious goals is good, the philosophy behind TIU's success is about enjoying the ride. To do that, "setting little mini goals each day is really important," says Scott. "And, of course, setting attainable goals—that's number one."
The idea is that if you're only fixated on reaching a far-off future goal, you're not getting the boost of encouragement that comes from recognizing your progress along the way. "One thing that works for us is journaling throughout the process," says Scott. Checking in on mini goals each day can help keep you motivated and spot any not-so-fun parts that might be waiting to derail you.
Tap into community support.
Old Goal: Next time you hit a wall, just grit your teeth and push through it.
New Goal: Next time you hit a wall, ask for support from your squad.
Rather than letting your setbacks feel intimidating, build a support group right into your goals. "We set out to create a community for women where they could connect with each other," says Scott. "At the time, fitness was very scary and not very fun—we wanted to connect through fitness."
That's a goal they've definitely crushed—K&K have talked to TIU Girls who met through the community and were in each other's weddings, welcomed fellow TIU Girls to new cities where they didn't know any one, and even spearhead meal deliveries for a TIU Girl battling cancer. "Seeing the way that this community comes together and truly changes each other's lives is surreal," says Scott. "All we want is for these women to feel fulfilled, and if they feel fulfilled and loved then we've done our job."
Want to experience the TIU community for yourself? Check out the TIU Tour this fall—you can get tickets and see a full schedule of dates here. https://www.fitnessmagazine.com/mind-body/inspiration/how-tone-it-up-girls-make-fitness-goals-more-fun/
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Remember the (4) S's for weighing:
♦ Same TIME of day (on the)
♦ Same DAY each week (wearing the)
♦ Same CLOTHING (and using the)
♦ Same SCALE to Measure Yourself - Remember, sometimes the scale doesn't budge, but the waistline will.
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While we all love to have different types of goals, and I've never "Instagrammed, "snap chatted" or chatted anything except talking on the phone or occasionally going onto Skype, I can sure think of some fun goals and fun reasons to keep working on getting in shape. I tried having a goal of shedding some pounds before a next doctor's appointment. You guessed it, not enough importance on that one to take it seriously. Oops!!! We're paying these guys, do we really care WHAT they think? Maybe a smidge, but not enough to worry about, at least not for me, lol. But wait, what if you were going to meet a movie producer/actor/writer, or get an invite to be a guest singer, etc. for a professional gig of some sort? I turned down the first one for not feeling strong enough to go out and be a movie extra, and the second idea, I'd have a month for getting in gear. The only reason some of these things come along is for being out there with friends and getting these invitations. Even one of my friends who is 80 went to be an extra in the film being shot!! Could be different opportunities, like a friend unexpectedly stopping by, or a reunion of some sort coming up. What's in your wallet? What's relevant for you?
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Let's make it a fabulous week!!! Oh, forgot one more thing. Since joining a writing group to which I have to travel and walk quite a bit to get in, and then through the place.... I'll be seeing some fascinating friends because we start up again Wednesday. You get my point, staying involved always keeps us having things to which we can look forward. ♥
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Usually I get a daily influx of emails on health topics. An article from Dr. Mercola really stood out recently though because it mentioned that fat cells have their own mitochondria. Not only was this the first I'd heard of this, he also mentioned that fat serves a purpose in our metabolism. Another new factoid for me. The bottom line for me was to appreciate that even our fat cells play a...
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I just do not feel well and I really think that it's because I cried yesterday on my way to work about my Aunt who is in the hospital. I don't think that we will have her much longer. She is very frail. Now she needs help eating. So, this is the third time in a year that I felt this way after crying. I think crying releases toxins into my body. I also worked up a sweat at the gym...
height: 5'6" female (1.68 meters)
maintaining. not even 1 lb fluctuation.
previous goal: 10 lbs of potatoes/ weekly-- NO
well, I ordered some top chef knives which haven't arrived yet. my new knife set that I got recently is not working out. it had good reviews, but it's junk. looking forward to better tools.
my dumbbells arrived, but they are really small. probably need to replace them, too.
from last week's idea list.... I was thinking to combine upper body weight training with learning the skill of juggling because both are arm exercises. I've done bean bag juggling before, so it wouldn't be starting from scratch.
from this week's idea list.... my foot injury prevents group workouts except swimming. I have a lot to do this summer and don't want to get involved in a swim program. for group exercises, my mom really likes zumba fitness.
good luck to everyone this week!
Wavewater - it does sound like you should trade those weights in for something you can use. Glad you're still using something helpful from last week's article. Sounds like you've got some great group fitness ideas! ☺
first, I was choosing cheaper options with the kitchen knives and weights. sometimes that works out, but sometimes not.
there are more things to try. thanks for the weekly suggestions. how is your week going?
LynStrife: Hello and congratulations!! Moving in the right direction I see. Feel great about that! It's a fabulous mark of achievement!! <3
For me, I'm still the same and that is pretty much a miracle or an "off" reading on my scale. Some days just feel more "on track." Trouble getting to sleep lately as it's the quiet time I love when it's late so then I don't get up as earlier as I'd like. That's got to change as I don't like wasting the early mornings. <3
I hear you on the needing to get up earlier. It's something I really need to work on as well. Night time for me is freedom from kid-chaos so sometimes I stay up too late enjoying that. One of my four year olds also still likes to wake me up most nights. It can be so hard to get the day started sometimes.
for me... so much petcare work. 3 errands in past 5 days. my pup has high risk surgery next week.... thank goodness, I don't have children because caring for one old dog is already a lot for me.