They are a lot ways to loss weights now a days. Find a coach. Try Weight watcher. You can change your body to look better. Guys look at the body. JJ smit is an expert lossing weight without exercises. If you drink her smooties you will loss weight. You can buy her books. She have a page on facebook.

Find an image consultant.

I have learned I cannot compare myself or Ill always see myself come up short. You have to learn how to love yourself and then the people around you will come around.

First of all, please stop calling yourself such horrible things. Your being to hard on yourself. The way that the world is today everybody thinks they need to be stick thin to be beautiful. Skinny is not beautiful or healthy. Remember Marilyn Manroe? She was considered an icon of beauty. She was a size 16. True beauty is inside. You have to be born with that... the outside you can change. Be strong and love yourself the way you are. Hugs

I have also been struggling with my self image. the best way to feel better is to do things to feel better. Go to the gym, drink water but some outfits. Don't give up or it will get worst.

The psychairtist can only give med. I think you have low self estessm issuss. YOu need a psychologist.

Hello, I know you don’t deserve to feel this way. Also, you are not alone in your feelings. Many of us as women are not happy with our body images. In fact, when a person is a particular size sometimes they still are not happy with their image. I see your effort to feel better with seeing your psychologist and you are on a medicine to help you please continue to see him/her and take your medicine. Try to start doing things for motivation small things even when you don’t feel like it you can have your friends join you or alone. For example, going out, go for a walk, listen to music, watch a movie, meditation, yoga. Yes, you are very deserving of love. It’s sometimes difficult to get the ones closest to us to see this is what we need. I know your life is worth the fight. Also, you can get where you need to be believe in yourself and encourage yourself and have your friends to support you. Also, you are not hated this is the depression that makes you feel like this. If, anyone makes you feel this way they are not deserving of a relationship with you. Lastly, giving up on yourself is not an option because this causes a stand still. Be positive and be proud of the progress you make and realize that you are not perfect, but are doing your best. If, you feel you need someone to talk with in the future continue to post to this site and maybe try the Samaritans it’s a 24-hour confidential hotline at (212) 673-3000. They are there any time you feel you need to talk to someone and they are there through anything. Hugs and God Bless you. We are here for you.