Welcome to DS.

>>all I do is sit in my room all day

which will not fix any of your problems. You are smart enough to know that.

Do anything else but that .. get out of the house ... there are jobs all around you except inside your house.

Your situation and behavior are causing you all the problems you describe.

Get out ... look around. There are plenty of jobs.

I've been unemployed for a while thanks to disabling conditions, but back when I was looking for a job I spent hours every day looking. It became a job itself just to find one, are you sure you are putting your best effort into it? I don't mean to sound doubtful exactly but when people tel me they can't find a job, I always question how long and how hard they have been looking. However being unemployed itself is no reason to be so down on yourself, put your best foot forward and keep looking. Ask someone in a better position for assistance if you have someone close to you like a family member or friend. I used to be pretty good at looking for a job, if you'd like some job searching advice I'd be happy to help if there's anyway I can.
Good luck

Sometimes we get so close to our issues that we lose focus. Is there an employment center anywhere around you? Many universities have job placement help.

Please find one and call one!

They can do much more than help you write a resume. They can stage a mock interview and then help you improve your interview skills. Years ago I was one of the people who hired new college grads for my company. It was a difficult process, and takes a lot of skill on the part of the interviewer to bring out the skills that the candidate has as they relate to the job.

Keep trying, these are hard times, and it will take some time.

Gentle hugs

thank you everyone, it means a lot to me to know I have people I can relate to and the fact people here are supportive even if they didn't go through this

>>all I do is sit in my room all day

Wandering Vet is correct, that sitting in our rooms only makes things worse. And contributes to our situation.

So when we are smart people, "college grads" why would we waste our lives away in our rooms, are we lazy, unmotivated, self-centered?

Yes and no. We are all these things because we are DEPRESSED. I know it takes forcing ourselves to be around people, to stop isolating in order to change. But I just wanted to acknowledge that this is no easy task for some of us. Death in fact does feel easier to me most days.

So, yes... push yourself to get out, make just one friend, take a walk, etc. But please don't beat yourself up for being where you are and experiencing the symptoms your having.

When we are out of the despair, the fear, the depression and have hope answers become more clear. Sometimes you gotta light just one small candle and hope it stays lit long enough to find your way through the dark fog. Start by setting small goals. Hang in there.

One finished school does not mean they will make money. Those super rich are school drop out.Find other ways to make money. You tube have alot of videos teaching one to make money.