A quick question before you leave... what have you done to improve your situation??

God listens, and answers. Are you listening to him? He has a way of answering the qustions we should ask.

If you ask God to make that one man like you, the answer may be to look at that guy standing just behind him. Or to his right, left, or the guy who says hello to you in the lobby.

Please hang in there.

What suggestions would you give your best friend if asked the same question you've posed?

Planning DEATH ANY IDEAS????? I did not even bother with reading the gory details....and this was posted because???? you wanted us to provide you with ways to do it??? I HOPE now crazy member actually gave to how to end your life tips... I would rather help you live,give you many tips about that one... Please pm me and talk any time, but DONT ask for help in ending your life.... I wish you well

i would like to say- its times like these i wish we had a remove ur own post button- cause i'd like to do that now- so please let this one fade away- i will be ok now- i just took things out of context and it was not as bad as it seemed- i appreciate and luv u all and thank u so much for all the kind words and support and for putting up with my depressive episode.....

It's never as bad as it seems. Remember that. :)

take each day as it comes, if thats not good enough, take each hour as it comes and each minute. do you know what i have decided to do. i will do one good dead for someone i dont know each day. but mine you its hard cos i dont get out much. but when i am out shopping i willl hold the door for an elderly person. if i see someone struggling with babies and trying to get a shopping buggy at asda i will get one out for them, its the little things like that that make you feel better about yourself. you are helping someone else.you should try it. it makes u feel a bit better about yourself. you try it and see. it has helped me alot. it makes me feel that maybe that person will remember me cos of what i did. not that it was alot i did, but it helps me.

i hate to do this to people, but I'm going to be mean.

Suicide is a selfish act. You think your own feelings are more important than those of everyone else you know. Theyre not. You are important to your friends.. and to those around you. It's hard.. life is hard... but why punish yourself for what happens to others? hmmm? Nobody says its easy. life is hard... I've been rapes 4 times and people all blame me for it... not that it s the same but i'm saying.. be better than suicide... it's selfish and MEAN.. very mean. anyone who doesn't notice you over sokething so superficial isn't worth your time anyway. If you're posting this here, then you Can't be completely dead set on it anyway. You have to live, and ENJOY life, to SPITE those who would make you suffer. that IS MUCH more satisfying than dying. You can't see the results if you're dead, can you?

Some people who may get on my case for this... I've talked many-a-friend out of suicide before.. everyone else was nice to them, I said "if you commit suicide, I wont go to your funeral. I will be sad you are gone, but I won't feel sorry for you. the last memory i have of you will be your selfishness and how you took the easy way out at the deep emotional expense of so many others". it works. Buck up girl. it can be hard.. unbearable.. but take it day by day and become a stronger person.. spite them with your happiness, and you'll be surprised how mcuh better things get

I think it is so sad that you are feeling this way!
Reaching your darkest hour is the worst place anyone could ever be.
I have been there a few times but when i think of that time even now when i am not feeling great i am just glad i didnt put my family through the pain of loosing me.
You need to learn to love yourself again, it isnt easy but there are a million reasons why you should do thing and only a couple that would make you think your not worth it!
I hope you find a way to appreciate the person you are and what it has taken to get to where you are today.
Keep fighting, i am! xx

i would like to say- its times like these i wish we had a remove ur own post button- cause i'd like to do that now- so please let this one fade away- i will be ok now- i just took things out of context and it was not as bad as it seemed- i appreciate and luv u all and thank u so much for all the kind words and support and for putting up with my depressive episode..... aka not feeling this way anymore

I wonder what your life-force has to say about this. At the time of you writing this post, you reaching out for help, I think. That is your life-force at work. Where you are at now is most painful. However, you will get through it. If you are in hell keep going (Borrowed). Please, get some help. All this missing him and nobody will love you is low self-esteem stuff. Therefore, it is something you can do something about. The world You, as with the rest of us do not have control over people, places, and things. You can only change yourself.

RICHARD

See? yay! Feeling better! next time you feel like this, try to take it out on something that won't hurt yourself. I used to go to the gym, wrap my hands so i wouldn't mess up my knuckles and just wail on the heavy bag. Yeah, once or twice i got a little bit of bleeding on ym hands, but its better than other things, and i got my aggression out. Also, if you can go somewhere with no one around and scream your lungs out about all the things you're angry about... I start of crying with this and then usually end up laughing...