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Lets start this with the fact that I had several left over bottles of pain pills and muscle relaxers cause I rarely took them over the past 3 or 4 years cause I didn't like them. I kept them in case I ever needed them. I kept them in two places. One for the less strong and another place for the hydrocodones. Well, I noticed recently that every last bottle is gone, the pills are gone and the bottles went missing. I felt that it was my daughter, but when I asked she denied it. I have since started locking my pills that offer anything like that in a safe. Well my daughter went to her fathers for Christmas and she has not seen him in a year. He has called and said that his wife's pills are now missing and he thinks my daughter took them, and I do too.
I got the call last night. My daughter is in an interacial relationship that my parents are angry about, but I don't see a problem other than the one society creates, and those problems are not like they were before. I spent the day with her and the boy she likes over the weekend.
So I call my mom very upset last night, and she just acts like I told her I got mud on my shoe or something, and nothing more. Her exact words " Oh....Well." that was all she had to say, as if it was nothing more than a little mud on someone's shoes, and she could care less. Wait till she calls me upset over something, my dad is dying, all she'll hear from me is "Oh.... Well" and I have packed up everything she has EVER given me and it's going to the Goodwill. I should have come to reason with who she is a long, long long long loooooooong time ago. I'm completely and I mean COMPLETELY done with her, she does shit like this, plays games when things are serious ALL the fucking time, and she will never change and I have HAD ENOUGH of it.
I got the call last night. My daughter is in an interacial relationship that my parents are angry about, but I don't see a problem other than the one society creates, and those problems are not like they were before. I spent the day with her and the boy she likes over the weekend.
So I call my mom very upset last night, and she just acts like I told her I got mud on my shoe or something, and nothing more. Her exact words " Oh....Well." that was all she had to say, as if it was nothing more than a little mud on someone's shoes, and she could care less. Wait till she calls me upset over something, my dad is dying, all she'll hear from me is "Oh.... Well" and I have packed up everything she has EVER given me and it's going to the Goodwill. I should have come to reason with who she is a long, long long long loooooooong time ago. I'm completely and I mean COMPLETELY done with her, she does shit like this, plays games when things are serious ALL the fucking time, and she will never change and I have HAD ENOUGH of it.
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Do you think anxiety is genetic or comes from your environment? What are your thoughts?
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Many of you know Mr K told me to "shut your mouth" in March 2025 when we took a road trip to Alpena Michigan. Since that time, we have had lots of ups and downs but I have never intentionally hurt Mr K in anyway. And when we first started dating in 2024 he let me know, although he is an engineer by degree, he has an extremely low EQ. Overall, he is ok (not off the charts nice like other guys in...
I had spent the weekend with my daughter and her boyfreind and my mom was not happy about it.
After getting the call about the missing pain pills at my daughter's father's home I called my mom, and that is when she was acting like I had just stepped in mud and acted completely unconcerned about the fact that her ONLY fucking grandchild is possibly stealing pain pills
Your Mom. It is your decision ... do what you feel you should.
Daughter ... from what you say, she is 'wholesale' stealing the pills .. either for herself or someone else. She MAY be taking them, but I think you could tell that. More likely for her or someone to sell ...which could put her in prison (so could taking them). Lots of undercover work going on in the anti drug biz. Hope she doesn't get caught ... sort of.
She can deny things again, or she can change her story.
I am sorry for you, you are caught up in one of those cases where from a legal point of view you do not have proof. But from a non legal point of view you have enough evidence to make you suspicious and not trust her.
Hmmm, perhaps telling her that the trust between the two of you has been damaged, and that she needs to think things through. Carefully.
Gentle hugs
Yes my mother is the most predjiduce of all, and know what the saddest thing of all is???? My mother named me after a best friend she had as a child who was African American.
Nice huh? I find predjudism disgusting as well. Right now I find just about everything under the sun disgusting about my family. EVERYTHING. I have turned my phone off and have packed up everything that woman has ever given me and it's sitting in garbage bags in the trunk of my car as I ponder what to do with it.
IT IS DANGEROUS 2 PHYSICALLY TAKE ANOTHER PERSONS PILLS...................
GBU
DRENA
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You might want to keep the stuff your mom has given you. Not because it is wrong to throw it away (or donate it), but because it is one of those things you can't undo after the fact. (Short of dumpster diving and the land fill, or going to the thrift store and buying it all back.)
By all means, take your time thinking about it.
I don't know enough of the history to have an informed opinion about if throwing it away is the right thing to do or not. But even if I did, I'd support your decision either way!