Depression Support Group
Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.
Well, just when I thought things couldn't get any worse, my grandfather passed away last night. I don't think it has really hit me yet and I don't really know that I have enough emotion left to deal with it honestly. He has had heart problems for a few years now but they got really bad in the past few months. He was admitted to the hospital early yesterday morning and they said he had pneumonia, his kidneys were failing and his blood pressure was 70/30. And also, because of coronavirus, nobody could go be with him since the visiting hours are only two hours per day, 1 family member per day. So my grandmother did not get to see him.
And to make it worse, I have the worst "best friend" ever. We have been friends for 18 years and when I told her she said "oh no, they shouldn't have brought him to the hospital, they should have just let him die at home. They had to know he wasn't going to make it." which like, fine that can be your opinion, but also why is that the first thing you have to say to me when I just told you my grandfather died? I don't know, it just sucks because she is really the only friend that I have and she really isn't much of a friend. Just wish I could go to someone for support in real life instead of here for once.
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I got an email from Kohl's that I had a 40% off coupon for today and tomorrow only. It took me about an hour but I placed an order and got some great deals. I have been wanting a new dress. I like dressing up sometimes. My birthday is coming up and I have dinner plans at a nice restaurant. But, honestly, I'm a little out of control again. I went through this in the fall. I bought...
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Has anyone else noticed that clearly speaking and doing things intentionally is liberating because it helps combat the feeling of depression and a sense of hopelessness? Let me share a little more: in my experience, when those who have tried to project a hidden agenda that is obviously not aligned with integrity and well-being, it's best to be firm and speak clearly from self-awareness and...
Most people does not know what to do if you have some tough problems. They cannnot diaginos mental illnesses. They cannot understand why I become more upset after I saw them. You need to talk to someone knowageable. Like a councelor. some friends can only have fun together. Thats all they can do.
When you are in dire straits or in the worst emotional states, you will know who your real friends are, and who are the mere hanger-ons. You have done the right thing in taking your granddad to the hospital, as the hospital would be more equipped (e.g oxygen, medications) than your home to make your grandpa comfortable. Your friend sounds quite rude .... how can she says insensitive things to the bereaved. If I were you, I would just ignore her.
There are still a lot of things for you to do: the funeral, the attendees at the funeral, comforting grieving relatives.... I would focus on getting through these events, than focusing your energy on an unsympathetic and insensitive woman. Remember to eat well and sleep well, and don't stress yourself in your grief. Keep your mind focused on what you must do for your grandfather for the last time. I pray that God will comfort you through this difficult time. Marie