Good morning Lady! I know the feeling of being misunderstood. I was hospitalized twice and left with very fond memories. Keep posting!

Hello,
I don't know if you go to aftercare? I know that when I did hospital outpatient treatment there were some people in the cohort that were inpatient that came to my group for aftercare. Some of the people in there were there for chemical addiction, they became really close sober buddies outside of hospital. I'm only loosely connected to them now, but I know some places have aftercare where you might find people you vibe with, and that can extend into the 12 step community too...maybe try out some meetings? IDK, some of them have social gatherings, I don't know what you're into...just a random thought.

Good Morning Greeneyes727, it is sad that we relate through trauma but it is good to hear that the two times you needed to be hospitalized was pleasant and thank you. You keep posting as well, It Helps.

Hi Mars1212, I do not go to aftercare. I only saw a therapist when I was still working and could afford it. It didn’t allow me to make connections. Those group meetings would have been nice to go to. It is something to research… I avoid social gatherings, it causes too much anxiety but it’s good that there’s places like that to provide a safe place to meet people.

I know the feeling. I had a good crew of friends back in Pittsburgh before I moved. They understood me, and if they didn't would try. That's why I am grateful for this site. It helps.

Not sure if this might help, but some places have what is called, or at least around PA, clubhouses for folks going through mental health. Not saying a google search will dig one up in your area, but it might not be a bad idea. I was part of one in the Pittsburgh area and it was a nice place to meet people and join in on occasional events.

Stuckinthe90s, it’s comforting to just know that there’s someone out there that cares, even if they don’t know what to do. You are not alone. I am happy you found DS helpful and thank you for helping me. Any help is appreciated, as I lack support in my life.

Big hug Lady

I'm sorry that you're hurting sweetie

I know MeetUp's meet for all different things incuding coffee and conversation

You're right about getting honest when in the hospital

12 Step meetings can help a great deal

I know they also meet for loved ones of an addict ..Al anon or Nar Anon

There may be other peer groups that meet

Your doc could perhaps refer you to a socal worker or community health to help you to find what might be available in your community...xo

Suncloudjd, thank you for the continued support and information. I will have to look into it. It might be good for me to find one that helps people who have struggled with self harm. I’m okay and not currently but that is my addiction. On the brighter side, I should be getting a doctor in 2/3 months at the latest to get help. A social worker sounds like a good idea to have. When I was an inpatient, there was one who was very informative and helpful.

*hugs*
I understand the feeling. I tend to feel as alone and misunderstood a lot too.
DS had been a huge help for me .

Kikio, wish it was different for you. Glad you found DS and it has helped you. Thank you for helping me too. Hope today is a good day!

I live alone and live my life alone, even at work i spend alot of time alone, but i trust in Jesus. Because He supports my mind and speaks through His word. We need more God in our lives. If we all were more spiritual then life would be better for everyone. Natural life can be hard, but supernatural faith helps in big ways.

Prycejosh1987, I’m happy you found Jesus and by doing so you’ve found a way to cope with life. Being alone isn’t always easy and not everyone can overcome it. I lost someone who had no one.