How is friends leaving you because of a health condition stupid? How is getting harassed stupid? How is getting your number blocked stupid? Nothing you said is your fault. They are the stupid ones not you. If they want to act foolish and selfish, let them wallow in their own egotistical world. There are far better people out there to befriend. Best wishes on the cancer. I hope you kick its ass and then some

I'm getting chemo soon so hopefully there's a decrease in the mass

I cannot speak for everyone here nor do I want to but I wish you a safe procedure and speedy recovery

Sorry you have cancer and I wish you well with your chemo treatments. The people you thought were your friends are not friends at all. A true friend is always there for you during good and bad times. It isn't your fault they have chosen to be stupid. If they were real friends, they would be there supporting you through your cancer treatments and any other problems you may have. You are better off without toxic people like them. There are many good people who will consider you a true friend. I had cancer two years ago. I had surgery, chemo and radiation. I am happy to say that I am still in remission. Talk to people on this site and you will make new friends who are ready to listen and offer support.

Thank you. But see one of them would stay with me after school hours just so I can talk to her about how i felt. And apparently her friend thought it was an unhealthy relationship and blocked me on her phone and it's overwhelming and confusing.

No I mean her friend literally physically took her phone and blocked me on everything.

Sweetie, I am so sorry for what you are going through, especially losing friends right when you needed them the most. You are so young to be fighting cancer. But just know that my 19 year old son has been cancer free for two years! He made it and so can you. I will keep you in my prayers, I'm here every day if you want to talk more

Thank you. I'm really glad your son's okay :)

So glad you are reaching out!! Keep talking and please keep posting. Your hurt is understandable. You are feeling betrayed and abandoned because your friends are not supporting you. Talking about this is good and healthy!

This is a time when you need support! We are here for you. Are there any family or friends or support groups through your church or doctors that might help you right now? Praying for your recovery and for you to find healthy, faithful support.

There are support groups for cancer patients but I don't think it'd be helpful.

Protect your self respect. Don't reach out to those who don't want to communicate with you. You are better off without a bunch of ignorant people in your life. Distance from people who harrass you. Ignore the fools and they will eventually get bored.

What type of cancer do you have? And you do have to face the reality that your friend has willingly continued to block you on her phone...nobody can force a person to do that....so she's not much of a friend. Its better to surround yourself with positive, caring people, not the kind of people they're being.

I am so sorry. Its a shame that they would do this when you need true friends. If that other friend wanted to call they would. Sending hugs.

I'm so sorry to read of your cancer! I Hate Cancer!!! What your supposed friends have done is to show you 'who they are' cowards, or they are in denial and don't know how to support you or are afraid to support you because they don't know what to say or to do....either way...now is the time to find support from positive people who can work with you and understand what chemo does....I sincerely hope you will find a support group, of people who are fighting each day with a positive attitude...I too have had cancer and having that support, during, and after in part of your treatment towards wellness....ask where you go for treatments or at your oncologist office....where I went, they had yoga, talk therapy and support for after treatments...my best to you for where ever and who comes into your life with the current challenges you face ((Hugs))

I would encourage you to investigate if there are support groups that might help:) Have you considered individual counseling? Counseling helped me a few years ago, when I felt abandoned.