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if anything happens to her I'll die

nofil69
nofil69

had an arguement with my gf wich made her homeles... she's in Sweden an is gonna go work at a refugee camp... Im in the states... I cant do anything and she wont accept my help... Im scared

misleadingsmile
misleadingsmile
Try and get some sleep...you did good today
sharaninmd
sharaninmd
Are you in a financial status that you could supplement her income a little?
nofil69
nofil69
dont know how long I was sleeping but I checked to see if she got the message I set but she didnt
nofil69
nofil69
if she was in the states as well I would not be able to help but since our dollar is around 8 to 1 to hers it would be nothing to help her but I offered and she said no
nofil69
nofil69
Im not able to see anything after me saying how old she is to misleadingsmile said to get some sleep... I pushed the first and last buttons but still couldn.t get to them
misleadingsmile
misleadingsmile
Can you see them now?
nofil69
nofil69
yes I figured out how to get to them... I have to press the page number
misleadingsmile
misleadingsmile
Yep...you got it...keep me in the loop when they get around to emailing you back...I'm going to see this one through from start to finish
nofil69
nofil69
I got a reply from her. she is sleeping in her car and she said she should have brought more blankets because she is cold and the info I gave her is what she already has :-( Im so afraid for her and its breaking my heart
nofil69
nofil69
she doesnt want to talk till September so I stayed with her for a few hours
I got a name of one of her friends in case I dont hear from her at least omce a month...
she kept saying she is more concerned for the kids...
I asked if she can put off paying the bills till she gets on her feet she said if she stops paying they will take the house and she cant do that to the kidsshe said tho that she cant promise how she will feel after this summer
misleadingsmile
misleadingsmile
You mean how she'll feel about you? Is she blaming you for this?
nofil69
nofil69
my comment didnt go up but I said its over she went back to him
nofil69
nofil69
I knew in my heart she didnt want to leave him and she was just lieing to herself doing what she did
nofil69
nofil69
dont be suprised if you see a post from me in another group
bridgie101
bridgie101
she's 43 she's old enough to take care of herself.

And let's get this straight: she's living with some guy while dating you, you tell her off for it (?) and so she tells him she won't be with him and he kicks her out?

What on earth is she doing? Is this normal for swedish people? If she's your girlfriend why's she shacked up with some guy?

This whole story sounds a bit ridiculous. Honestly nofil, do you think someone might be spinning you a yarn? I sense a con job here.