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had an arguement with my gf wich made her homeles... she's in Sweden an is gonna go work at a refugee camp... Im in the states... I cant do anything and she wont accept my help... Im scared
misleadingsmile
Wait, back up a bit...how did an argument leave her homeless?
nofil69
our arguement was about her still being with the guy shes with so she went and told him and he kicked her out
misleadingsmile
Is she a Swedish native? Does she have a job or any money in savings?
misleadingsmile
Or maybe a family member she could stay with while she gets back up on her feet?
nofil69
she is disabled... shows what kinda man he is... no friends or family to help and yes she is Swedish
nofil69
this is my fault
misleadingsmile
Stop that right now! Blaming yourself for this won't fix the problem...focus on how to help her...now is there any type of government assistance for the disabled in Sweden?
misleadingsmile
I'll answer my own question...yes, Sweden has disability benefits...now what is her disability?
nofil69
Im gonna call around in Sweden and find something for her... but today was the last time she wants to talk to me till after summer because she doesnt wanna say anything to ruin us... she is on disability
nofil69
she has MS and she is still able to drive but not work
misleadingsmile
How old is she? And how much is she getting (in SEK) from disability?
nofil69
I know this isnt helpful in any way but I need to get it out... I am so angry right now at that guy he is lucky Im a half a world away
misleadingsmile
Don't jack up your phone bill calling Sweden just yet...I'm reading a copy of the 2008 Swedish disability reform law...
misleadingsmile
Don't worry about it...sometimes you just need to vent...perfectly normal reaction to a dire situation
nofil69
she is 43 and she told me before that sfter she pays everything she has to she is only left with 100 for the month
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