Your not alone, I'm the same way. I've even done the online meeting people thing too and it hasn't worked either. Relationships are hard to keep when you have anxiety and depression, the understanding just doesn't happen.

Have you joined the Loneliness site? There are a lot of people there who can relate to how you are feeling , as well as here. If you are looking for friends, you will be amazed at how the people on DS become your family, often times more than your own. I have been blessed by the friends I have made here. Hugs GB

I do not like my sister too. I have to keep up a good relationship with her because after my parent passed away, I might need her help. Making true friends is not easy.They are responsible to be a good friend too. Not just you. I do not know where can you meet someone in your city.You can find a coach about relationship. I saw there are free help online.

a lot of people sing the praises of meetup.com. I looked into it for me but none of the groups fit me. give it a try, can't hurt.

plus gramybear is right. the loneliness group has a lot of people that don't have friends or family except for those on here

Thank you everyone. I will look into those websites!

Hi,
Yeah it makes sense, I guess if our well is empty (depression/anxiety) we don't have a lot to give to others. I found that as I began to feel better, I acquired relationships. But it's like the chicken and egg thing, so kind of a conundrum. Do what makes you happy first, if that makes sense.

You aren't alone in feeling this way. I'm right there with you. I've had my two nearby friends leave just before Xmas and have been going through some health issues that just make me want to stay home all the time. I was gong to a meet up dog walking group before that but with the winter and my medical issues I have stopped. My mother died five yrs ago and since then my family has not been close at all...except for my dad I feel ll alone. I try to be social. Up it's like I just don't have the energy.

I can totally relate. I feel really alone. I hope you find support and friendship you are looking for. Keep your head up!

Orion, that is an interesting take on it. It makes sense. I am focusing on getting my life back on track & hoping I find friends along the way.

Cymiga, it's bittersweet to know someone shares how I feel! My health has gotten the best of me. I feel like I'm trapped behind tight limitations because of my health. I have tried working out recently (I really want to lose weight), but that has kind of turned around and bit me. I saw my family on Friday and after only four hours I was exhausted. All I wanted to do was go home and sleep.

& thank you eshaw! I hope you find friends & happiness as well!