I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I hate when people do that ughh! Especially when you tell them you're not on their level with religion. Don't feel bad I'm going to hell too for what some folks have told me. Religious people, (not all) act like they are so holier than thou and they are so damn perfect but in reality they're not. There's no perfect people anywhere! Hugs

Hi, I just want to say quickly I’m sorry they treated you in a way that made you see Christianity in a poor light. I do believe their intentions were good, but, I believe, as Christians, we are meant to show people love, and it doesn’t sound like that’s how they were speaking to you.

I’m sorry to hear you’re going through something so difficult. I have been battling depression for seven years and now face spotty episodes, here and there. Depression is hard. Sometimes it just makes existing alone a battle. I used to go through every day in utter misery. I have found meds that have helped stabilize it, though, so that’s good. I have never done too well with CBT or DBT therapy ideas but meds do help for me.

If it’s okay, might I pray for you? I totally respect it if you’d rather I didn’t.
Otherwise, I’m happy just to listen if you ever need someone to talk to; feel free to message me or send me a friend request if you would like. Thank you for sharing. You are always welcome to vent here, that’s the point! I think you will like the community here. People are very supportive.
Best wishes!

I should have came here first...

I feel you nofil69. I am an atheist (although I do not rule out the possibility of a god because to do so would mean that I am a god (i.e. that i know everything and I don't :) and it always irks me a bit (a lot) when people tell me that if I put my faith in god/jesus I will feel better. I wish I could. I think I would probably feel better if I believed in god and was able to pray to help me get through tough times. But I don't and I never will. So that advice is totallllllly pointless. But most religious people don't get that. Anyway, hang in there, ignore the religion and the people who preach at you (it's fine if someone wants to pray for me, that has zero impact on me so why not). I try to look at the fact that the majority of them have good intentions and do care. We all care for others and are looking for help ourselves, that's why we are on this site :).

No one should judge you in any way. I’m sorry you went through that.

sorry for leaving I had company c0me over... I love this site... I.ve had nothing but good people commenting here... no judgement about anything or anyone...

What you choose to believe in is your business. There have always been people who wish to condemn you for your beliefs. Hide from them and you will beat them. Love thine enemy.

Hello, I honestly want to say that I'm sorry they treated you the way they did, I mean they shouldn't have done that. They should have just let you be. I'm a strong believer in Christ, but sometimes I get tired of people not giving me there own opinions too, the only thing they tell me to do is pray and I do pray, but the reason we join support groups is to try helping each other right? Not to be taught about Christ and to be told to pray like half the time. I understand what you mean, I'd really like to support you and be there for you.

It’s not our place to judge that assignment is for Jesus. Medication and counseling by a mental-health professional is good; couple with exercise that releases chemicals that can lift your mood, increase your energy, and improve your sleep. Record your thoughts and feelings in a journal. Also please don’t overlook your spiritual needs.

Never say that. It's a red rag to a bull. If you don't want religious answers just put them on ignore when they do it.

Try to focus on what you do want. Talk about your issues. Then convo about god becomes out of place.

Thank you for sharing. Love is showing compassion, even to those that don't believe in what someone else believes. The Good Samaritan is a great example of how a Christian should act. The priest and his follow brother passed him by when he needed help, yet his "enemy" helped him and even went the extra mile. I do apologize for any mistreatment or judgement that you had to endure. My Christianity is my greatest aide, but I share that with those willing to hear. It is like fishing in a mud puddle, otherwise. Very sadly many Christians with depression get run out of their own churches, because they get persecuted due to lack of understanding. We will still pray for you, even if you don't believe, but nothing should ever be shoved down your throat. Love isn't beating someone down. Thank you and I am sorry for your mistreatment by others.

1. Facebook ... I have an account there, but I have suspended it. Facebook is one of the biggest negatives on the Internet.

2. One's religion or lack of it is ENTIRELY their business. Religion is the MOST controversial topics I can think of.

3. I was an atheist for many years ... all of the first 60+ years of my life, in fact. I finally saw the light ... and I hope you will too.

4. If you are trying everything else, ... and it is not working .... then I would suggest you try something else ... and it could be that religion is the missing piece ... OR NOT. You will never know until you try.

5. Funny how religions, for the most part, go WAY, WAY back. Religion is practiced by most of humanity. Maybe there IS something to it. I spent all those years 'not buying it' ... and then, it was explained to me in a way that I could understand, . and once that happened, I see that it works. It is the side of life that we do not see, hear, smell, or feel ... it is our SPIRITUAL side ... and if one believes, it is the other 1/2 of the whole experience of life. Without it, .. we are only 1/2 equipped ... AT BEST.

6. 'Nuff said. That's all I have for you, my Friend. I hope my reply will carry you forth.

PS: There are believers who say Hell is simply an existence without a relationship with God.

all I was getting was scriptures and references to god... nobody replied with a single personal answer... nevertheless I left the group... Im not against religion but if thats all you think about when conversing with people... being a nonbeliever tho a simple I understand or a hug even is more powerful than someone elses beliefs... my post was me asking for help from a real person
Im not be-littleing the situation but to me its like a non-meat eater saying their salad tasted too plain and you get people telling you recipes for rubs or the best cut of meat cooks best on a BBQ... now to the meat eater, they swear by the recipes they shared and think it would be a good thing for me to try...
sorry I dont know a better way to discribe it

Hi! First of all,Welcome!
Second, you are correct.
When a support group is made,if the people want ONLY specific others on there, than they should label the group accordingly and attach a statement that gives a (brief) intro and reason behind such specifications. Like they do here.
NO ONE has the right to do that to another human being!!
I'm SO sorry you experienced that!
Third, EVERYONE is entitled to worship in their own way and if they choose not to than that's ok too. This is a basic right of humanity itself and SHOULD NOT be disregarded and stomped upon!
Here you'll be respected along with your wishes so it truly is the best place for you and I hope that you are able to find what you need here.
Also, I can't remember, BUT I think they have an atheist support site here as well. So,see! There's variety here!
You can sign up with more than one group isn't that cool!
Best of luck to you!!

I dont like giving myself labels or anybody else but if I did I would be an atheist or agnostic... Im human and to me so is everyone else... I believe in treating others the way you would like to be treated