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I AM DONE

imiru
imiru

i'm done


I am so sick of my boyfriend getting mad at me for no good reason. I am so tired of him making me feel like its always my fault the fights start and I cant say anything or tell him how I'm feeling after he claims he'll be there for me and listen.


I'm done


no more



it always has to be on his fucking terms when we talk and how we talk! I cant live like this! He can go do this to someone else, I've hurt for him more than enough and I'M THE ONE WITH THE DEPRESSION



I know he has a stressful job! I know his family and some of his friends stress him out and drive him crazy but I've been needing someone who will let me lean on them and TALK to them. Even when I was in a horrible state of depression I STILL pushed it all to the side for him when he needed someone to talk to.



fuck him


fuck all of this, none of it has been fair from the start and he will never listen to me! His "love of his life,"


he only listens to his friends so you know what thats fine with me! I've only ever wanted him to be happy and apparently all I can do is make him pissed off and hurt! I've already apologized to his mother and to him countless times.


God I want to just kill someone right now!

AnxietyFreak40
AnxietyFreak40
Want to use my punching bag? :) Seriously though, It's good you are standing up for yourself. If you are not getting what you need from the relationship, it may be better to let it go and focus on making yourself better.
Nev
Nev
I guess when we come to the point that we can't stand a relationship we have to let it go. I have gone trough this. It took years for me to do it. But after that, I learned what I wanted from a relationship. What do you want? You know now what you don't want, so don't accept it anymore. Wish you luck!
Minidogs2
Minidogs2
Sorry you're so upset. Sounds like the guy is a source of constant anxiety, depression and drama. Sounds like you can find a better relationship with someone who is much more supportive. You can't make it work with someone who refuses to communicate. I found that out the hard way with my ex.
whatswrong19
whatswrong19
years ago, when I thought I was with the love of my life, I went through this same stuff, and all these years after breaking it off cause I couldn't take the pain anymore, I was still blaming my self. then I learned what sort of things he did after he and I broke up (he was cheating with the next girl he victimized after we broke up) recently, and I don't know how to act, It wasn't my fault, I really realized this when I found out he took the next girl to drug parties and had sex while other people watched with her, and was cheating on her the whole time. You learn, but at least you had the experience.
Community LeaderThePepperMan
ThePepperMan
By all means dump him. (Just don't kill him first!) You do not need to explain it, or justify it, or get his permission. A simple "this is not working, I'm done" is about all you need say.

I was going to use the phrase "all you owe him". But I don't like that. I think the better phrase is that is "all you owe yourself". Take the high road, let him know it is over. He may deserve to be left hanging, IDK, but the high road feels much better in the long run.