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BookThirteen
BookThirteen

my Mam is currently on holiday, I’m tempted to go live at her house for the next few days because me and my boyfriend are fighting. I’m so scared to leave though, I think if I go that’ll be it, he won’t want me back. Do I go and give us some space? Do I stick it out and hope the arguing stops even though it makes me suicidal? If I do stay at my mams what if he doesn’t care? What if he asks me to move out perminantly? What if I’m not safe by myself at my mams and do something silly because I can’t cope? 


I’m sobbing my heart out while typing this, hysterical, he’s literally sitting 2 feet away and is just listening to me cry. What’s the point? I might as well be dead. 

Rascimo
Rascimo
i am sorry you are going through this, Maybe go stay with a friend ? If you feel like you want to be alone but don't know if you can stay safe.
Cora_Belle
Cora_Belle
My suggestion is to get out of this relationship - it is no good and only makes you feel miserable. Go stay with your mam, focus on yourself and get emotionally healthy. Then "go take on the world."
KaleidoscopePictures
KaleidoscopePictures
Precious friend,
I can hear the pain and fear in your post, and I want you to know that you are not alone. I have been there. Right now it sounds like you are really emotional, and it is hard to think things through when your emotions have taken over. It can be good to get some space from an emotionally charged situation. Is there a wise friend you can go spend a couple of days with, who can listen and give you an objective perspective? Have you thought about telling your boyfriend that because you love him so much and because you want to make your relationship work, you think it might be good for you to spend a couple of days at a friend’s so you can settle down and come back ready to have a calm discussion? If you do not have a wise friend you can talk to, is there someone else like a counselor or a pastor, you can talk to who can help you get a fresh perspective? I am so sorry you are going through this. I know it’s hard.
Community Leaderbobinmaine
bobinmaine
My suggestion is to go to your moms and tell your bf you need a break in your relationship. So what if he leaves you. You will find someone better. Often things happen for a reason. It's called "Divine Providence" which is when something bad happens, to bring about a greater good! I have seen this happen many times in my life. You will too, believe me.

It will all work out.

God Bless
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