Chronic Pain Support Group
Physicians and professionalsdefine pain as chronic if it lasts longer than three to six months and is persistent. It's distinct from acute pain that is a direct result of injury or trauma. This support group is dedicated to those suffering from chronic pain. Discuss treatments that have worked for you, find advice for your specific experience, and find support. You're not...
kayla91
Hello! First things first: I am 22, and have been dealing with pelvic pain for 3 months. At first my doctors thought it could be endometriosis. I had a lapoeoscopy done on 8/23. No endo found. What they did find was pelvic congestion syndrome. It is essentially vericose veins on my uterus.
I'm highly confused, as I have no children and don't know why this is happening. I am having a very hard time coping with everything. I have not been able to work due to the pain. I cannot do a lot of things that I want to because it hurts too badly. I'm pretty much stuck in bed after taking pain medicine.
I'm just looking for people to talk to about what I'm going through. My boyfriend of 4 years is amazingly supportive, but I do not like to complain much. I'm more of a 'grit-my-teeth-and-bear-it' kind of girl lol. It is just to the point that I don't know how to get my day to day life back.
Any advice/support is greatly appreciated. Thank you for reading :)
I'm highly confused, as I have no children and don't know why this is happening. I am having a very hard time coping with everything. I have not been able to work due to the pain. I cannot do a lot of things that I want to because it hurts too badly. I'm pretty much stuck in bed after taking pain medicine.
I'm just looking for people to talk to about what I'm going through. My boyfriend of 4 years is amazingly supportive, but I do not like to complain much. I'm more of a 'grit-my-teeth-and-bear-it' kind of girl lol. It is just to the point that I don't know how to get my day to day life back.
Any advice/support is greatly appreciated. Thank you for reading :)
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a few people have pelvic pain hopefully you'll get a answer, never heard of that issue so I don't blame you for being confused.
I really hope this group is a good fix for you and we can somehow help, one thing we all know well here sadly is pain.
on how to get your day to day life back, start with the little things.
set a small goal or maybe a to do list but be flexible with it, allow a learning curve and extra kindness for yourself if you don't reach your goal that day and just try again. also make sure to find times for things you enjoy
welcome again
tori
Welcome to the group. My name is Mary Ellen and I'm sorry you're dealing with this kind of pain at your age that you have to be here to begin with. I've never heard of this, but did the drs. say anything could be done or have you done any research on this yourself?
I have polysystic ovarian syndrome and couldn't have children, had cysts on ovaries a lot, painful, but because i also had other issues, like a bad back, that pain kind of took over. I do understand the grit it and go which i did for a while, but eventually, that wears thin.
As I said, I would definitely do my own research to see what, if anything could be done. I'm glad your boyfriend is very supportive as that's so important when you're suffering. I do hope you can find a dr. or a treatment that can help you with this issue as you're way too young, and i hate to see you start suffering now.
I'm sorry I couldn'tbe any help, but I'm sure you'll find some wonderful supportive people on here. I wish you the best of luck and hope and pray something can be done.
Again, welcome to our group.
Hugs,
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Mary Ellen
The procedure does have a larger amount of risk though, so my doc wants to avoid it if we can. He wants to refer me to a pain management doc... I am not very familiar with that branch of medicine though.
I have done some research and found that not too many doctors treat this. There is no specific specialist I can see, and this condition mostly presents in older women who have children.
Its just hard to deal with, my mom is not being supportive at all. I find it funny bc she has chronic pain as well. She pretty much said that it would be 'better for me overall' for me to just 'have the doctors do a hysterectomy and get over it.' I refuse to consider that an option at this point. I may be letting this beat me up right now, but I will not let it take away my chance of a family.
Sorry for the rant, it is just disappointing that my own mother can't understand that I want a family of my own one day. Thank you for the welcome :)
You might want to at least discuss an Embolization with your Dr. and see if that would be a 1rst step, see if it works...if it did that would be great, no surgery.
Has your Dr. completely ruled out Fibroids and Uterine Prolapse? It's really, really rare to have PCS with never having been pregnant, unless you've taken large quantities of Estrogen over a long period of time...
Take care,
Kat
You can rant here any time...that's why we're here sometimes you just have to let it out. At 22, I don't blame you about not wanting to have hysterectomy!
i hope they're able to help or at least alleviate the pain.
hugs,
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Mary Ellen
I am sorry that you are having these issues and the pain.
I know the Lupron is great for Endometreitis but have no information of its use for veins.
I agree 22 is too young for hysterectomy. Kat has a great idea. I would see where that goes.
Best wishes. Hugs-RJ
Hugs & God Bless
Lisa
hugs,
Mary Ellen
i just want to say hello and welcome. although sorry for the pain that brought you here, i am glad you found this group as we all did - you have come to a good place.
try to be gentle with yourself,
elizabeth
Yes, the lupron will put me into temp. menopause which I am not looking forward to. My doc says that the hope is with less need of normal function will be less blood flow. With less blood flow will allow the veins to shrink. We have no idea if it will work, but its worth a try.
With me only being 2.5 weeks out of my surgery we are kinda trying to avoid any other procedure for a little while.
I have been going to a reproductive endocrinologist lately, he is the one currently treating me. My ob/gyn said that there was nothing wrong with me (even after I showed him the CT results which said I had vericose veins.) So I went for a second opinion.
The medicine has to be mailed out, which can take a week or more. I guess in the meantime I'll just take It easy and use my naproxen.
I'm sorry that your having to deal with the pain with nothing for pain. I hope that one of these treatments helps you before anything radical has to be done.
Kat
Gentle hugs dear. I hope everything works out well for you.