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I recently posted a topic entitled "Skeptical of Marriage", which received a suprising amount of input from women.
As I stated in that topic, my last two (2 yr.) relationships were ended by them, due to their desire & belief in marriage.
I'm still a little fresh from the last relationship ending and today I was thinking, maybe I should call her or if she contacted me I would tell her "OK lets talk about marriage" .
I then came to my senses and realized the insanity of that thought
based on the major red flags I saw in the relationship. LOL
For me yes, marriage is just a piece of paper, and what's really
important in a relationship is the love and committment towards each other.
My question is:
1. Why do women who've already experienced 1-2 failed marriages feel the need to enter into another relationship with the desired outcome of a marriage certificate to validate their love and committment?
As I stated in that topic, my last two (2 yr.) relationships were ended by them, due to their desire & belief in marriage.
I'm still a little fresh from the last relationship ending and today I was thinking, maybe I should call her or if she contacted me I would tell her "OK lets talk about marriage" .
I then came to my senses and realized the insanity of that thought
based on the major red flags I saw in the relationship. LOL
For me yes, marriage is just a piece of paper, and what's really
important in a relationship is the love and committment towards each other.
My question is:
1. Why do women who've already experienced 1-2 failed marriages feel the need to enter into another relationship with the desired outcome of a marriage certificate to validate their love and committment?
When someone makes the actual purchase, that vehicle is treated with much more care and respect, kept in the garage and kept around a whole lot longer, handled with a lot of love.
I don't want anything to do with any relationship that is put into business/retail terms.