It makes me wimder if men ever get hurt. They may miss us but they certainly don't feel pain like we do. I could cry right now. The men today don't have any respect for us anymore. Even in a relationship I don't get treated like I should.

I dont think I will ever understand it.

How are you feeling today?

I function like a robot. Im doing what Im programmed to do. Get up, shower, get ready, go to work, come home, etc. Meanwhile, Im dying inside. I walk around with a poker face so that my turmoil wont show. And this is not focused towards you because, obviously you know whats going on, but everytime someone casually asks me how Im doing or if Im okay, it takes everything in me to not fall apart. But we cant ball up and die (as much as we want to) so here I am at work. -Exhaling- Thank you for asking... How are you feeling today?

I'm sorry you are going through this!! Is unreal how after being with someone for so long they can just leave you so easily. It puts the whole relationship into question. It just sucks, i know people say is a lesson and it is. But that's time wasted, time you never get back and that hurts!!!! I hope you get through this soon! I'm currently going through a break up myself. I've been reading a lot of articles online on how to get over a break up and most of them say the same thing but it helps a lot (at least for that moment ) just keep repeating that everything is going to be okay ! Your brain needs to hear it until it truly believes it !!! We have to stay strong ... (Easier said than done I know ) xoxo

Its so funny because I too have been trying to look into things to read to help me along this process. That's how I found this website. Everywhere you turn its being said that "it will get better" and I want to believe that so bad. It's just really difficult to understand why I'm in this place when I all I ever did was love and support this man. I never did anything to deserve something like this. I don't get how they can do this to us and sleep at night. That's so horrible. But yet, there are women out there who treat their men badly and yet, the men are chasing after them and putting in the work necessary for it to work out. It's insane.

Yes its disgusting. One of ny best friends, who I've cut off because she dates my ex's best friend, was chesting on her man for a year. Never told him of course and now he's wrapped around her finger. I can't stand it. I'm ok right now, but waking up is so hard I cringe and cry. Thoughts contantly go through my bead especiLly accepting thr fact it's over forever. Thanks for asking. This is a nice site to find suppprt. You all are so kind.

Yes it is. The circumstances that bring us together suck, but it is good to have something like this.

Hang in there. It is true that it will get better. The normal routine helps time pass. Your feelings are all normal. There is no way getting around it...well you could drink or go party or have a one night stand, but those things end up making it worse. You have to just keep paddling to get to the other side.

It's surprising how many stories are so like mine. I hate that we all go through so much pain when our Exes can just walk away and start a new life and relationships. Just like that. I agree with Misred - most have checked out well before they left. I think most of us want to believe there is good in everyone and when we give our love it will be treated with love in return. It's heartbreaking to know someone we trusted can betray us like this. Best advice I got was get a therapist and take care of yourself first. It's all about you right now.

*HUG*

Hi, i can completely relate to what youre going through. I was dumped last week after a year and half, the day before he was telling me he loved me and wanted to spend life with me, the next day i was dumped over txt saying he needed a clean break to sort himself out. I cant understand how someone can go from i love you to i dont want to talk to you again. My days are so empty. Id have spent them talking to him and being with him and now i feel like i have nothing left. And he just walked away without a blink of an eye and doesnt even care. How can people be so cruel and spineless!

Im so sorry to hear that you are going through this. *Hug* Its a scary thing when you think about how common it is for men to do this. Its even more crazy that they are such cowards and so selfish. I wish there was something I could say that would make all this go away. *Hug*

After he split up with me, i made the fatal mistake of going to get drunk with my friends and not leaving my phone home. The evening turned into a series of undignified drunk conversations and i said and did some horrible things to him that evening, that i now deeply regret. Not because it ruined any feeble chance of reconciliation but because i presented self as unstable and vengeful. I know it seems like theres nothing good atm, but take solace in the fact that you walked away with your dignity intact and didnt lower yourself to pathetic actions. It may not seem like much but trust me it means a lot. I hope you are getting through things ok

Hexe, block his number and dont go out
And get drunk. That really does not help,
neither does drugs and sex. Just Forgive
yourself and do better and move past it.

You probably did what alot of us would
Like to do :) HUGS