my boyfriend and father of my two kids recently went to drug/alcohol rehab. prior, we were having some issues, strictly in my defence, based around his issues. I didn't trust him with the kids, obviously. When he came home from rehab, after not contacting me the entire time he was gone, he called my dad and asked that i not be at the house when he came home. i respected his wishes and went and stayed with my parents. I obviously had the kids with me. I wasn't sure what was to come, and clearly we had no custody agreement so i didn't anticipate allowing him to take the kids. He quickly took me to child custody court and he was awarded supervised visitation pending our mediation. our mediation was schduled for a month after the emergency hearing. we started getting along, and were talking about working things out, ultimately he said he wanted to wait until after mediation to work things out as far as us and focus strictly on the kids right now. i told him that i did agree, but that ultimately, being in the midst of a court case things could get nasty. I told him the best interest of the children right now has nothing to do with our relationship and that i have never been away from the kids and that in my opinion, he was only thinking of himself and not the kids, he also has been refusing to help me financially, which i explained to him if we were going to live seperately he needed to help us get on our feet and that it would be damn near impossible for me to get on my feet supporting two kids single handedly. Since then, we have had good days and bad days. Mostly, conflict. We have slept together once. We have gotten into multiple arguments. Things go from we are working things out to i want nothing to do with you. the most recent conflict is because mediation was rescheduled for another month from now and now he wants me to go against the court order and give him an over night when i was told by the judge not to do so. i told him i am not willing to do so. he then, got nasty with me and told me he is going to take me for another emergency custody hearing, for no reason?!? again, more conflict. Today, he told me he was bringing the baby baby food, which i didn't even need because i just went food shopping yesterday.. and he drops off a box of the rest of my belongings, i'm talking my scarf, my lotion, my perfume, a pair of super man sweat pants that were HIS that i always wore around the house, all of our pictures, a card that i got for him that told him i was pregnant.... what the heck?! what does this mean. what do i do. i clearly love this person and want things to work out but i feel like theres nothing i can do.