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Rman 05/14/2009

I am curious as to what people expect when they are dating other people. If it hasn't happened already, most people here will eventually enter the dating scene. If I had two or three dates set up for this week, is it their right to know about the other dates I am planning to go on? I mean going on a date is simply like a job interview, right? Would you be mad at me if I was dating you and you found out that I had also been talking to a few other people?

deleted_user 05/14/2009

How about when I guy takes you out to Micky Dees? Then what's expected?

deleted_user 05/14/2009

Soon! You're supposed to educate me!
I'm sheltered!
I don't know what to do if he cooks steak!
* waving wildly*

FrankTheGreat 05/14/2009

Oh, Yaya. I'm so glad you asked that question. We move right to the cougar portion of the rules, which isn't to say that you're a cougar, only that you're doing the buying:

"Cougars buy YOU dinner. Therefore, Cougar rules apply in the reverse.

Burger = you put out like a $5 whore.

Italian = You owe her a second date.

Prime rib = You need to start doing her yardwork. "

deleted_user 05/14/2009

Nevermind I read Franks list again...a closed mouthed kiss.

Men, you guys never cease to amuse me.

FrankTheGreat 05/14/2009

Oh, wait. I mis-read Yaya's question.

I think I was just looking for an excuse to post the cougar rules.

deleted_user 05/14/2009

If a guy cooks you a steak, dessert is you in something from Fredricks of Hollywood, and cameras are involved.

FrankTheGreat 05/14/2009

Bravo.

deleted_user 05/14/2009

Men are from Mars.

deleted_user 05/14/2009

These rules are for education purposes. Study up

deleted_user 05/14/2009

Men are from Mars, and Women like penis.

Or something like that

deleted_user 05/14/2009

All this sounds great if i could be an emotional madador and not get caught up in FEELINGS. I wish I could be more like a man that way. I know, I know what you're going to say. Ugh!!!

deleted_user 05/14/2009

You're humoring me.

deleted_user 05/14/2009

* scribble scribble scribble*

What about if he cooks stake and gives me icecream with whipped cream for dessert?

deleted_user 05/14/2009

martingala, then get ready to star in your own porno, including the facial money shot

FrankTheGreat 05/14/2009

And suddenly, it's like the forum went back to normal after weeks of dormancy.

You've been missed, Soon.

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