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Rman 09/08/2009

I woke up this morning with a great deal of anxiety. I'm not even sure why? Today was a day just like any other, only I felt this overwhelming sense of fear. I have been trying to put my hands on why I have these feelings. I think it may just be the fear of the unknown, but then again, today is just like every other work day, so it is not actually 'the unknown.' Ever feel this way? What are you most afraid of in life?

deleted_user 09/08/2009

*moo moo*

deleted_user 09/08/2009

I fear at times just giving up. Of not caring anymore.

lycesq 09/08/2009

For me, it is being disabled. I have rheumatoid arthritis and that is an ongoing fear (I'm in remission now).

Lynne

deleted_user 09/08/2009

star trek marathons there was one on yesterday

deleted_user 09/08/2009

Absolutley cows. THey are HUGE and BIG and look at you with those big dumb eyes, you THINK they're these docile lackluster animals, which is what they WANT you to think.

They're really planning to take over the world.

Won't you feel SILLY when this happens and you learn that I knew it all along?????

deleted_user 09/08/2009

*mooooo mooooo moooooo*

Rman 09/08/2009

Yes ALC, I will feel silly when the cows take over the world, but I will make sure to give you the credit you deserve. Thanks for the heads up...

deleted_user 09/08/2009

geez...this is one a those threads I shoulda just let be....yikes...I share many of the fears listed....cows - er, not so much ;)...I am afraid of going blind....I am blind in my right eye and had surgery when I was a teenager...had a patch on both eyes for a week and ever since then have had an overwhelming fear of losing my sight...dying alone, never trusting again, my daughters growing up to hate me, ugh...I'm gona go crawl back into bed...its too scary out here!

deleted_user 09/08/2009

foddy

deleted_user 09/08/2009

Because of the violence my country is going through now, I think that my greatest fear right now is sudden death (a stray bullet from a gang shooting or a riot on the street, or while being mugged)and not being able to provide for my child and parents, make plans for their future so they are taken care of.

deleted_user 09/08/2009

Growing older alone.

llmt 09/08/2009

Rman had those feelings today, as a matter of fact...I have a lot of fears now more thanks to him.

1. fear of being alone
2. fear of snakes
3. fear of bees
4. fear of being alone**yes it's a repeat
5. fear of the future without HIM
6. fear of where my life is going..and it's not going good.
7. fear of panic attacks ruling my life b/c of what he did and me not
accepting it.
8. fear of heights
9. fear of losing my kids to HIM or otherwise
10.fear of having something bad happen to them (the kids, that is)
11.fear that I will never meet anyone that has made my heart race like
he did..be as sweet and gentle as he once was..etc.
12.fear of divorce the list goes on.

deleted_user 09/08/2009

not being able to trust a man again

going back to school and possibly failing at college (again)

having to work so much that I won't be able to be there for my kids

deleted_user 09/08/2009

oh and the huge bridges around here

and spiders and roaches

llmt 09/08/2009

Also a fear that nobody will come to my funeral and that would be sad for me.

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