Stop. Take a deep breath. Now take another deep breath. Hold your chin up. You are a work in progress. No matter what happens: You. Will. Get. Through. It.

"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." -Eleanor Roosevelt.

I would just call him and ask him straight up. Tell him how you have been feeling and how not hearing from has been making you anxious AND that it causing you to feel as though he no longer wants to be with you even though you know thats blowing things out of proportion in your mind, See what he says at that point.Then if you still feel like he is beating around the bush with giving you a straight answer then you can proceed by telling him how much he means to you and that if he is truly wanting to break it off with you ...you would be VERY VERY sad but would rather hear the truth than be avoided for a few days. Direct and authentic is my motto.....I hope it works out for you hun. I know how hard this can be...
A similiar situation happened to me a week or so ago. I went to a psychic who appeared pretty accurate with most of the things she told me ...however when she told me my boygfriend had cheated on me 6 or so months ago and gave me a pretty thorough description of the girl (young, and light skinned etc) my world turned upside down. I thought and felt how could he do this to me?! I thought he loved me SO much even though I too can be a lot to handle sometimes. For days I barely eat I barely slept etc....then I straight up asked him in the most kind open minded way possible. He denied of course. BUT I couldn't let myself keep going on like this. So then it hit me one day. I asked myself how could I feel more secure so that in the event let's say my BF were to leave me or cheat on me it wouldn't be SOOO bad. Then I thought okay...I need to make sure im making myself happy, maintaining supportive and positive relationships with close friends and family...I need to do stuff that makes me happy like getting my hair done ...and of course balancing time between my lover and my friends. Otherwise if I consume myself with my BF then it heightens the likelihood that I will be completely devasted if he leaves me or cheats one me BUT if I take care of myself first than i may still hurt if the above happens but i will bounce back quicker....so lo and behold I still feel anxious but it's not as bad i have more control over it ...I hope my story helped you <3 and I hope and pray everything turns out okay <3
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I agree with J2789. You have been through some changes and maybe you are still figuring out what makes you happy. It sounds like you spent a lot of time focused on how to meet someone else's expectations. Besides Tom, what makes you happy? What are some of your goals? You stated above that he has become your whole world and you are a lot to handle. If this is true, maybe he is feeling a little bit of a burden. Time apart is good too. It doesn't have to be all or nothing. Feel better.

To make someone your whole life is a lot of weight to put on them. Whether or not it works out with him, you need to work on making yourself whole. Find activities that you enjoy on your own. I hope you have some kind of continued counceling to help you get comfortable living at home. Try not to "pre-worry" and just deal with whatever happens as it does.

I would head him off at the pass. When he does come over, you talk first, don't even give him a chance to tell you he wants out (if in fact, that is what he is going to say, because we are not sure yet). You start talking right away, telling him that you know you have gone through a lot, and that you are continuing to work on yourself, and that you really appreciate his love and support, because you understand this is a lot for him to handle.

Maybe he just needed to hear some reassurance.

Maybe what he is going to tell you this weekend has nothing to do with breaking up with you! Let's not jump to conclusions. And, as the others have said, make sure you always have other people, activities, in place, in addition to this relationship or any other boyfriends you have in the future.

Hallo there, thanks for sharing. Sorry, just wanna get some facts right. Have he spoken to you in person yet? Becos you mentioned he prefer to talk to you in person. Let’s not overthink what he is going to say to you. But I do understand you wanna be emotionally ready for the worst news. But you know? We are never ready for that kind of news. To live each day anticipating bad news will rob you of your daily joy.I know it’s hard not to overthink. But maybe replacing those thoughts with good memories of the 2 of you for the time being until both of you actually meet? Will pray for peace of mind for you. Take care. God bless!